Lemmy is a software. I am sure there are nasty lemmy instances, but that does not reflect badly on the code of Lemmy, even if those instances are run by some of the lemmy devs.
Go to/Start a a different lemmy instance, block the tankie instances and don't donate to the tankies, Problem solved.
Buntywalla
joined 2 years ago
You are looking for Piped, the instance of the developers is here: https://piped.video/