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[–] Caligvla@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 11 months ago (4 children)

Brazil commemorates Thanksgiving? In what bizarro world? I've never met a single person here who ever did that, in fact the vast majority of people have absolutely no clue what Thanksgiving is or that it even exists.

The author is just pulling this shit out of their asses lol.

[–] lupec@lemm.ee 9 points 11 months ago

I was going to say lol, I'd struggle to find anyone who is even aware of it in real life

[–] Thisfox@sopuli.xyz 5 points 11 months ago

It is a wishful-thinking style article on the web where some yank once met some yank who lived in Brazil and thus decided from this that every person in Brazil celebrated the USian holiday. Same in Japan, who definitely do not celebrate thanksgiving any more than Brazil does. But the yanks all think the world revolves around them.

[–] dirkgentle@lemmy.ca 4 points 11 months ago (1 children)

It may be a USA Brazilian thing, the diaspora is quite large.

[–] Caligvla@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Maybe, but that's like 0.1% of the population, there aren't many American communities in Brazil. Maybe it's a thing in Americana (a town founded by ex-confederates, I shit you not), but otherwise...

[–] Melatonin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 11 months ago

This article in Wikipedia mentions Brazil under "Observance." Apparently there are a couple of Brazilian laws that establish Thanksgiving as a holiday and set its date as the fourth Thursday in November.

So maybe edit Wikipedia? Note to them that it isn't known or celebrated?

I really wish I hadn't mentioned Brazil or Japan. I was just interested in what people were thankful for. I'm truly sorry if I offended Brazilian or Japanese people.

[–] ensignrick@startrek.website 15 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

For Lemmy. Moving from the alien site to here has been fantastic.

[–] firecat@kbin.social 10 points 11 months ago (1 children)

No one in Japan celebrating a fake holiday you Americans came up with.

It’s called Labor Thanksgiving Day (kinro kansha no hi):
A national holiday for honoring labour.

[–] Melatonin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I mean, all holidays are kind of fake. They aren't self-evident, even kinro kansha no hi.

But happy Kinro Kansha No Hi!

[–] firecat@kbin.social 3 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Well no, the Americans holidays are 99% fake. Thanksgiving wasn’t a thing until presidents proclaimed it.

Christmas is fake because 1) the religious conflict with April and 2) Corporate wanting people to buy stuff during December.

Valentine's day is another corporate scam to sell stuff that it soon became a thing in Japan too ( but we added white day).

Halloween is the false narrative name for Allhallowtide and lost the original meaning of respect for the dead.

I don’t know any actual holiday Americans ever created that isn’t a national thing or international event.

[–] lukini 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Juneteenth is a very American holiday. For bad reasons obviously, but still American.

[–] firecat@kbin.social 1 points 11 months ago

Yes but it’s not like an event for celebrating or cheering. It’s always about fighting and the people are still fighting.

[–] xenspidey@lemmy.zip 2 points 11 months ago

Christmas is actually about the mushrooms, Amanita Muscaria to be more precise

[–] PeepinGoodArgs@reddthat.com 8 points 11 months ago

I'm thankful for key lime pie. I may not have it as much as I want, but the idea alone of having another bite some day really keeps me going.

[–] NataliePortland@lemmy.ca 5 points 11 months ago

Thankful for my union fighting hours on hours to negotiate a better job for me. The other day they negotiated until 3 am!

[–] shiveyarbles 4 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Thankful for two years cancer free, my son is getting good grades and doing good at soccer and martial arts (the two things I did growing up) and the company I work for is growing massively and work is still interesting.

Cheers

[–] Melatonin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

That's awesome! How great to be able to say all that where a few years ago you must have felt like the world was caving in on you.

So happy for you mate

[–] shiveyarbles 2 points 11 months ago

Thanks yeah for real

[–] arthur@lemmy.zip 3 points 11 months ago

TIL that Brazil has a Thanksgiving day... But we do not celebrate it, and -unfortunately- it's not a holiday.

Anyway, I'm glad of the friendships that I have and had.

[–] Zoop 3 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I'm thankful for my sweet cat, Ziggy! :) Thanks for asking, OP!

[–] Melatonin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 11 months ago

Give Ziggy a smooch for me!

[–] laxu@sopuli.xyz 3 points 11 months ago (1 children)

It's been a rough year and I came very close to being furloughed. Managed to get a new client just at the right time and now I'm thriving again. I'm thankful for having frankly a lot of luck over the years which has put me where I am today. I'm not saying hard work wasn't important too, but sheer luck has been helpful too.

[–] Melatonin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 11 months ago

So many things are, frankly, out of our control, and we act like they aren't sometimes. I think being thankful is a way of acknowledging that the lines fell out in pleasant places.

[–] satan@r.nf 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I'm thankful for all the native americans slaughtered, so we could claim all their land, call them savages and celebrate their genocide.

it's so heartwarming, I can't put into words. πŸ˜‡

[–] Melatonin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 11 months ago

So, have you signed up with some ancestor research company to find out what you and your family are personally responsible for? Which slave names are the results of your great great grandfather's rape? What theft, what oppression, what abuse did your people inflict on others? Do you care?

How many aunts and uncles, brothers and sisters, sons and daughters did your family personally kill, in war or in cold blood? Could you count them all?

Are you committing to seeking out and making good all the past offenses and atrocities of your own personal family, and show us how it ought to be done?

OR - you could accept the past as it is because it won't change, flawed and time-locked as it was, with good examples and bad, but that's what happened. Forgive yourself and your ancestors and mourn for those who were hurt. We absolutely need to accept the truth to learn and grow.

That doesn't mean we have nothing to be thankful for today. I daresay even you might find something to be thankful for if you thought about it, Satan.

[–] sour@kbin.social 2 points 11 months ago

fun place called fediverse