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[–] Asnabel@lemm.ee 44 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (4 children)

Remember guys and gals, it's not body shaming when men are on the receiving end!

[–] Lumidaub@feddit.de 18 points 11 months ago

"This person conducts themselves with a confidence that usually comes with physical traits typically considered desirable."

[–] Grayox@lemmy.ml 10 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Are you implying the term Big Dick Energy is body shaming men?

[–] criitz@reddthat.com 23 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Yes. It equates body types with positive/negative traits. ie. "Big dick energy" implies "small dick = bad"

[–] Grayox@lemmy.ml 10 points 11 months ago (2 children)

I could see how the phrase implies that, however this meme subverts that by saying that dick size doesn't matter as much as your energy does. And the meme literally says that small dick energy is bad, not having a small pp.

[–] criitz@reddthat.com 10 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Small dick energy is bad but not small dicks? How does that make any sense. Think about it.

[–] Grayox@lemmy.ml 6 points 11 months ago

Bruh the only time I've ever used the term BDE is to imply that the size of your pp doesn't matter with this meme. Im sorry its upset you, but i dont really care. Trans men can have BDE without even having a dick. YOU are the one implying that small dicks are bad, not me.

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 3 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Saying small dick energy is just a different way of calling someone out for acting insecure it has nothing to do with the size of their dick.

[–] GreyEyedGhost@lemmy.ca 4 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Insecure like someone with a....?

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 5 points 11 months ago

Insecurity problem

[–] crystal@feddit.de 2 points 11 months ago

doesn't matter as much

[–] irmoz@reddthat.com 9 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

It does literally refer to penis size. Hiding it behind the word "energy" is just obfuscation. It reminds me of racist people defending the N word by saying, "there's black people, then there's Ns. Black people are fine, Ns aren't."

You're just kicking the can down the road. It's the exact same idea, phrased differently. You just wanna say "small dick" and get away with it, that's all.

[–] Grayox@lemmy.ml 4 points 11 months ago (1 children)
[–] irmoz@reddthat.com 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Try raising your speech level above 0 before responding.

[–] Grayox@lemmy.ml 3 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Bruh you just compared using the term BDE to the N word.

[–] irmoz@reddthat.com 2 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

I compared one instance of belittling offence to another instance of it. Keep up.

I even added explicit reasoning afterwards in case you got distracted, but you still couldn't control yourself.

Maybe try responding to my point itself, instead of the analogy that came with it?

You’re just kicking the can down the road. It’s the exact same idea, phrased differently.

[–] Grayox@lemmy.ml 3 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Lmao you have such debate lord energy, the meme i shared literally says your pp size doesn't matter. The fact that you equated BDE with using the N word shows how out of touch with reality you are.

[–] irmoz@reddthat.com 1 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

Yeah, you say dick size doesn't actually matter, but you're still talking about dick size. The word "energy" is just an excuse, so you can say "small dick" without being called out.

[–] Grayox@lemmy.ml 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I never said small dick till YOU did lmfao

[–] irmoz@reddthat.com 1 points 11 months ago

Sure buddy. "Big dick energy" exists in a vacuum and isn't the counterpart to "small dick energy".

How gullible do you think I am?

[–] Omega_Haxors@lemmy.ml 7 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

That's why I prefer 'big ballsack energy' It's something every male can achieve with enough waiting or the right diet.

[–] GreenMario@lemm.ee 3 points 11 months ago

Fuck off with this shit we're allowed to roast anybody and everyone for any reason. This is what you call "Lib Shit" for being offended over bullshit.

[–] mycatiskai@lemmy.one 12 points 11 months ago

Except when a lady friend wants a big dick, then all the big dick energy in the world isn't going to do a lick of good, that's when you have to bring out the lick of good.

[–] curiousaur@reddthat.com 1 points 11 months ago

It's a lot easier to have the energy if you've got it though. It just comes naturally. Being tall helps too.