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[–] doctorfinlay@feddit.uk 137 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I’m loving it too- I miss a lot of subreddits and the sheer volume of content from the other site, but it feels quite special here at the moment. Also I am loving how quickly Lemmy and all of the supporting apps are developing! I am using Mlem and am very impressed. I want to like wefwef and agree that it is very similar to Apollo, but I just can’t cope with web apps.

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[–] solrize@lemmy.ml 39 points 2 years ago (1 children)

There's tons of memes and stuff, but I was never into that, so meh. My thing was specialized nerd groups and they are mostly not here yet. With time, maybe they will come.

[–] Therevev@lemm.ee 17 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Same here. I mostly hung out in smaller, hobby subreddits. And the few I've found here are mostly dead. I really want to nerd-out with other people about shit nobody else cares about

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[–] Shatterdome@lemmy.fmhy.ml 38 points 2 years ago (4 children)

So far half the posts are about Reddit. So that part sucks. Lemmy is very complicated compared to Reddit. I don't think large groups will be able to migrate here until a easy-mode app comes along to make it user friendly(er).

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[–] nvlcof@lemm.ee 32 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

As a long time reddit lurker. Loving it here so far.

When I heard about it I was kind of expecting it to be contentless and bare. Oh boy was I wrong and so pleasantly surprised.

The amount and the quality of the posts and comments is very high. The people super friendly and I'm loving the sense of community and respect. Bonding over something new and exciting also enchances this feeling.

I also visit reddit now and then but I noticed my browsing sessions leave me more satisfied here on Lemmy, than on Reddit.

Obviously there are some communities that I miss, but I'm sure with time replacement tor those will start to appear.

Lemmy and the community not only fills the "gap", but for me, it also stands by itself providing something that reddit didn't .

Super excited about what is being created here.

[–] UnverifiedAPK@lemmy.ml 30 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

It's reminding me a lot of when I first joined Reddit (nearly 15 years ago). Not too much is happening day-to-day so I'm checking in every couple of days or so.

I think this is a much healthier relationship than checking a site compulsively every couple of hours. I'm liking it so far, also a crazy repercussion is that I'm using the internet like the early days again. I think of a topic and I do a deep dive on my own, researching into it and going down weird rabbit holes.

I feel like Reddit discouraged this behavior by having a non-stop flow of communities that "mostly" interested me enough to not go "browsing the web"

[–] SwissJackalope@lemmy.ml 27 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Pretty nice. I just wish more people were here. The occasional bug is fine it seems to be fixed quickly.

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[–] wren@lemmy.ml 26 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Loving actually having conversations with people, instead of talking into the void where by the time you see a post it's already so old that commenting is useless

I love the concept of a federated network, it definitely feels way more punk than just being another data set for a corporation

I do wish a few of the more niche subreddits had similar communities here, but I'm trying to do my part by making that content

[–] fidodo@lemm.ee 9 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I don't have anything to add but in the spirit of actually engaging, I see your comment and agree!

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[–] STEbbq@vlemmy.net 26 points 2 years ago (7 children)

I was on Reddit for over 8 years, nearly entirely using Apollo. It was frustrating to arrive β€œlate” to a thread and only see funny jokes, and have any comments buried if you bothered to make one. Here, it is nice to actually have a conversation with posters and maybe you might actually see them again someday.

Maybe the difference between having a conversation at your favorite pub with good friends versus yelling at someone in the stands at a football stadium. It is nice to be seen and heard.

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[–] fidodo@lemm.ee 25 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I like it but can't wait until we stop talking about Reddit

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[–] BetaRebooter@feddit.uk 25 points 2 years ago (5 children)

The servers (instances) aspect and different communities (forums on topics) on different servers and servers blocking others, is a mess if I'm being honest. It's the biggest flaw. I still find it hard to find communities of topics I want..

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[–] IRQBreaker@lemmy.kozow.com 22 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (6 children)

17 years on Reddit, 15 years as a registered user. I'm done with Reddit.

https://old.reddit.com/user/irqbreaker

Two weeks in on Lemmy and I've even set up my own instance. It feels like old Reddit and I'm loving it!

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[–] AlexWIWA@lemmy.ml 22 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I love it tbh. Just wish my niche communities had more people. But that just takes time

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[–] arirr@social.fossware.space 21 points 2 years ago

Definitly hurting for engagement and content, but seemingly improving.

[–] doctor_han@lemmy.ca 20 points 2 years ago

Not as many things to mindlessly scroll by, but I'm liking the new community vibe so far!

[–] Nichaes@lemm.ee 19 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (3 children)

For now, not great. It's annoying to have 99% of my feed taken up by posts like this one. I don't care about Lemmy, reddit, or any other related sites. I'd like to just find some actual content thanks.

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[–] HandwovenConsensus@lemm.ee 18 points 2 years ago (2 children)

There's one aspect of it that I didn't expect, and that's its exclusivity. Seems like this is a small, but vibrant, community of geeks, just like the whole internet was in the 90s and 2000s.

I'm not 100% sure it'll be able to replace reddit in the area of getting advice on niche topics, but I do believe I'll enjoy being here.

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[–] Reality_Suit@lemmy.one 18 points 2 years ago

I have never heard of the fediverse before the whole exodus. As soon as I did, I was immediately hooked. Fuck corporate interests.

[–] andyquest@vlemmy.net 17 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Kinda not liking that the more niche communities are me and another 5 people are best

[–] hamburglar26@wilbo.tech 9 points 2 years ago

I think that will grow up over time. May never get to the level of Reddit but hopefully even if it is just a few people talking and keeping things going will give time for others to discover. Baby steps.

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[–] AmosBurton_ThatGuy@lemmy.ca 17 points 2 years ago (6 children)

I've been lurking for a few weeks now but finally made an account and I'm really liking it here. Less content but higher quality is preferable to tons of content but most of it is garbage like on reddit.

My main complaint is the fediverse isn't big enough to have a lot of activity on the more niche communities so I find myself going to reddit for a few of those subs still but only on my desktop so I can use old reddit and block ads.

Gonna try and contribute more here since it's much less toxic and noisy than reddit is.

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[–] frankyboi@lemmy.ca 17 points 2 years ago (4 children)

Still not enough content. I already feel the slow down in activities. I'm in a weird spot rn. I go back to reddit because there's more interesting stuff to see, but the official apps is so bad, that I come back here. Also People here seems more intelligent on avg.

I like lemmy because there is no ads and no gold and premium stupid stuff like NFTs and 50$ awards. I liked the awards ideas ,but damn paying up to 100$ for digital emojis that everyone will forget in a day?

The big downside is the lack of embedded videos. Of course videos takes a lot of server power compared to text. But I hope we find a way to implement this in the future.

I think we should have a public board that shows the instance hardware spec and the finance. So we can set donations goals to upgrade servers or keep them afloat.

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[–] SpamCamel@lemm.ee 16 points 2 years ago

I like it a lot. Feels like early days Reddit. I do miss some of the niche reddit communities, but on the other hand the main lemmy continues seem much more approachable. My biggest complaint is that Lemmy can be pretty slow at times.

[–] Vlhacs@reddthat.com 14 points 2 years ago (2 children)

It's probably the closest thing to reddit right now (even down to the shitposting memes unfortunately) but I wouldn't say it has the same feel quite yet. I still find the distributed nature confusing (am I in the lemmy.world's technology community, or lemmy.ml's? How do I get to beehaws instance?) and navigating between instances is a chore. I realize though that situation is very fluid and if users can get over the hump and start investing into their communities and lemmy as a technology it can get better.

Also I rely on mobile apps to navigate the majority of the time. There are some decent ones out there now, like Connect for Android. But it definitely is still buggy, and is not as fluid as my experience with Relay for reddit. But again, nothing that can't be fixed.

Some of my favorite subreddits still hasn't shown up yet as communities in any of the major lemmy instances, and I honestly feel it's going to take a very long time for that to happen for some of the more niche ones. The user base I honestly believe will never reach even close to reddit's numbers.

So in a nutshell, good promise, closest thing to reddit, but still has a long way to go.

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[–] dishpanman@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 years ago

It feels like 20 years ago migrating from large chatrooms to bulletin board forums with a smaller more specialized community like setup. Posts and threads don't instantly get buried, and there don't seem to be as many assholes looking to pick a fight.

I see that by scaling down, some of the the more niche forums don't get the traffic, but that will likely change over time. I'm digging the integration with Mastodon so links to people and articles don't have to flow through Twitter. It minimizes having to sift through tons of ads to read what I want.

I also like the region based instances like lemmy.ca and midwest.social having communities and news that is of interest to those regions. It would be cool once more countries have their instances / communities.

Reddit had a good idea with having subs, but many of them got too big to be able to have meaningful discussion for many people. What is the point of trying to comment and engage in a topic that has 5000 posts? Lemmy hopefully can solve that by having the same community in different instances to keep the size where more people can discuss topics in a smaller more engaging setting.

[–] normalmighty@programming.dev 14 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I'm enjoying the site overall, but I feel like a lot of people are way too die-hard into the philosophy here, to the point where everything seems to come back around to endless circle jerks about how cool and awesome we are for using the superior open platform.

I like it because it's open, but it really isn't THAT big of a thing, and I'm getting pretty burned out only the endless talks about what is and isn't the best pure way to implement the perfect utopia of federation.

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[–] Fiddler54@lemmy.fmhy.ml 14 points 2 years ago

It feels more organic. I'm enjoying it.

[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 14 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I’ll tell you one thing, I kinda like that it’s small. and that I’m seeing this thread on front page second day in a row.

It’s cool to have the smaller amount of content so it all moves a little slower.

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[–] Martz@lemm.ee 13 points 2 years ago (4 children)

Honestly I'm kind of struggling with the concept. I'm using the connect android app but it's just not clicking for me.. how do I know if I've found the right community? On Reddit there was only one /r/gaming but when i search on lemmy I get lots of small communities all for the same thing across different instances. Am I misunderstanding how this works? This must be how my parents felt when i first tried explaining Reddit to them 5 years ago

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[–] jordanlund@lemmy.one 13 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Population is soooo much lower, but that's not necessarily a BAD thing.

I tried searching for a Comic Books group and it doesn't exist. There's one for Comics but it's a ghost town and populated mostly with web comics. :(

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[–] InputZero@lemmy.ml 12 points 2 years ago

Been here for a month, I've noticed that my anxiety levels have dropped significantly. I think it's because I am not an American and on Reddit I didn't realize how much American politics I was consuming just reading comments. Here I just haven't subscribed to American focused subs. It's nice.

[–] ThisIsNotHim@sopuli.xyz 12 points 2 years ago (9 children)

It seems fine, with a few concerns.

The federated nature could become confusing, especially for new users. For example, I'm not sure how a new user is supposed to distinguish between: Games@sh.itjust.works and Games@lemmy.world This seems like a potentially worse version of reddit's games vs gaming vs truegaming.

Also the lack of filtering options. Until I build up a reasonable amount of communities I'm subscribed to, I suspect I'll be using All more, which doesn't seem to have a simple way to do things like filter out all memes or just focus on text.

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[–] Cameron@vlemmy.net 11 points 2 years ago (1 children)

3 or so days in and liking it more than I've liked reddit in a long time. Boost for lemmy is likely going to be the thing that makes it permanent for me

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[–] Knightfall@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 years ago

I'm enjoying the hell out of it. Could be the novelty of everything, but I'm liking it more than Reddit. And like I've seen many here say, I tend to respond and have conversations here more often.

Plus, Connect for Lemmy is very nice on my Android phone. I was waiting for Sync of Lemmy to arrive, but I'm not so sure I'll switch.

[–] notenoughbutter@lemmy.ml 11 points 2 years ago

I like how default sort for comments is active instead of best, which was just top rated comments

that way, I see recent comments where conversation is still happening and I can participate, gives a better feeling

[–] Reil 11 points 2 years ago

Been on Reddit since 2010. I'm hoping that Lemmy and other Fediverse apps sort of grow out of the meta-talk and comparisons to their centralized counterparts.

Otherwise, the communities themselves seem pleasant (or swiftly defederated from by the good ones). We don't quite the critical mass to get active niche communities, or hyper-specialized ones yet, which I kind of miss. Stuff like "here's a subreddit for each of these very specific habits that cats can have", or "talk about a particular species of parrot", y'know?

[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 11 points 2 years ago

It's good. Unironically better in some ways - the transparent up vs. down votes are nice, and the preview button is indispensable. I used to post something broken and then have to ninja edit it.

[–] Burstar@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Well it was confusing to begin with. I'm still not sure how to search efficiently or whatever, and I don't know where you can quickly see the Instance themes. I've settled in though and I'm comfortable now. It really helps that **every **comment isn't replied to with someone outright hostile for whatever reason. Pretty sure that'll change once the bots realize we're worth their time.

I have my icks. I wish thread trees were more distinct. I'm still getting the hang of the interface. But despite them there is a pleasant vibe here where you feel like you're actually talking to people and not screaming to be heard amongst a hostile crowd.

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[–] Addfwyn@lemmy.ml 10 points 2 years ago

I quite like it, I generally like how it looks, and there was less of a learning curve than I expected there to be. Things mostly work without needing you to know HOW they work (though that is fun too). I am sure it will get more active as more people move over, but it's actually the perfect amount of activity for me right now. I can check in and there is usually some new stuff without worrying about things moving so fast that my voice gets lost in the noise.

Big plus is I can be fairly open about my leftist politics, at least around here, and not be downvoted into oblivion. Nor does everything thread even tangentially related to China devolve into racism within five posts.

Are there a couple niche communities I miss? Sure, I might recreate them myself honestly, somebody has to. Otherwise, I don't miss much.

Lemmy scratches the Reddit itch for me. It doesn't have all my old niche communities yet, but it's got enough for me to log on and see what's happening in the Internet.

Also, I haven't been pestered to use an app since I got here, which is so nice. Reddit was getting more and more aggressive about that before I quit.

[–] Mic_Check_One_Two@reddthat.com 10 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Primarily a mobile user, which I’m assuming most migrants are. I like it so far, but have some minor complaints about the available apps. I was so used to Apollo, and a lot of the apps like wefwef and Mlem are frustratingly close but not quite there yet. Mlem Is missing some things like being able to zoom images, make image posts, (Correct me if I’m wrong, but Mlem doesn’t appear to be able to post anything except links) automatically fetch inbox messages, or view comment replies in threads. Wefwef seems more like Apollo so far, but it has its own quirks since it’s entirely web-based.

That’s something that I expect to improve with time though, as the apps are all still under development. So here’s hoping that things improve.

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[–] Spaht@lemm.ee 10 points 2 years ago

It is a little difficult to find communities if they are not on your specific server and the apps are not quite there yet, but it is promising and I am happily getting settled in.

[–] andxze@reddthat.com 10 points 2 years ago

It might be a tiny bit rough around the edges here and there, but the QoL features more than makes up for those.

I already prefer it to reddit tbh.

[–] volvoxvsmarla@lemm.ee 10 points 2 years ago

So far really confusing. But honestly I didn't use reddit for 4 years despite having an account because I couldn't figure out how to even begin and I only got it going thanks to boost and my spouse (no one else I know is/was on reddit). So I have hopes that over time it will sort itself out and I will have figured out how this works. Let's see if I can even post this comment.

[–] jonatan83@lemmy.fmhy.ml 9 points 2 years ago (4 children)

I'm very confused. Trying to figure this whole new decentralized social network thing and I feel like an absolute boomer. I would need a nice iOS app for me to really get into it I guess, something like Apollo.

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[–] razieltakato@lemmy.eco.br 9 points 2 years ago

I think I like more than I liked reddit.

But my NSFW needs are not met yet, reddit have way more fap fuel.

[–] xamboni@vlemmy.net 9 points 2 years ago

It's neat, though I still have mixed feelings about how to choose which communities to follow. There are many duplicates, and I feel like if I don't subscribe to ALL of them, I could be missing out, but then it increases the chance that I'll see many of the same post (e.g., for a news community).

Content discovery is a bit more work. On Reddit, I never really subscribed to things or sought anything out in specific beyond just using All and scrolling, because it had a nice mix of everything. Here, it seems I'll have to do a bit more work and seek out the type of content I want to see, especially if a user on my instance hasn't already discovered something I care about.

It's also more work to choose an instance. Some instances might block what I want to see, so it's possible I will need multiple accounts.

Overall, I think with some more users and more communities, those gripes will largely go away as some communities in certain instances might become more dominant.

I'm mostly just happy to not see ads, and to know there's not some nefarious company running the service.

[–] JIMMERZ@lemm.ee 9 points 2 years ago

Feeling good. It's early, and I know we need to keep that in mind. That said, more of the communities I used to follow have started setting up shop here and that is a good feeling. Now with Memmy on the App-store I feel at home and don't have much if any real reason to go back to Reddit.

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