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Café

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Welcome to our virtual third place, The Café.

Come on in and make a new human connection over a cup of coffee (or Teh Tarik). This is a casual community, do whatever you want, share your oyen pics, your frustrations, and even organize a weekend picnic with the community. The world is your oyster.

Rules are simple, be kind and civil with each other. As with any other café, rude patrons will be kicked out.

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[–] zen@monyet.cc 7 points 1 year ago (4 children)

did we just get our first comment from the non-lemmy fediverse (mastodon, in this case)?

[–] IkanCelupTepung@monyet.cc 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Screenshot it as monyet.cc milestone

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[–] weecious@monyet.cc 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (12 children)

Woah, and I'm in the comment! Look ma, I'm famous!

Edit: Trying to reply to @sohkamyung@mstdn.io but I can't.

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[–] cendawanita@monyet.cc 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Ayyyyy! And also that was the person whom I got the article from! Wheeee

[–] rakyat@monyet.cc 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Seems like the chain of events was:

  1. sohkamyung shared article on mastodon
  2. You saw the article on mastodon and shared over here
  3. Weecious commented here
  4. Weecious’s reply appears on my mastodon since I’m subscribed to the channel over there
  5. I boosted her reply on mastodon
  6. sohkamyung saw it and responded on mastodon

That’s the magic of the fediverse hahaha

[–] cendawanita@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago

Pretty much! 😂

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[–] imaginelizard@monyet.cc 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

https://monyet.cc/post/54639

Mandarin pre-election megathread is up. Do spread the news to your mandarin speaking friends.

[–] acausa@monyet.cc 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] dcx@monyet.cc 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Wao nice one guys! Hmmm I think we need to start a moderators discord to coordinate or something lol, lots of things in the air at once.

@acausa, would you be able to add a one-liner cross promotion to lizzie's Chinese-language megathread, at the top of your state election sticky on r/my? Basically something like this

I think there's a very good chance this will draw new users here, because Chinese-language users don't have any reddit-like place to talk elections. (Whereas the english version here is more for our existing users, as it doubles up on the r/my version)

[–] zen@monyet.cc 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

have you considered something (instead of discord) that you can self-host (considering you have a domain name here)?

but if all the mods are already on discord, then never mind.

[–] dcx@monyet.cc 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Hmm. I think most people have a discord these days, yeah. My personal lean is towards conserving "novelty points" for when we absolutely need it, like this site. But good to know we have the option, if Discord starts getting evil and threatening the future of the community etc lol.

[–] cendawanita@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

And fediverse options for forums are coming as well 🥳

[–] zen@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] cendawanita@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago

I forgot! LMAO Whenever the next phase gets circulated in my tl I'll definitely share

[–] yong1996@monyet.cc 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)
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[–] cendawanita@monyet.cc 3 points 1 year ago

Morning.... I had oatmeal. At least choco flavour.

[–] weecious@monyet.cc 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Someone asked me if I'm a student. I said yes, and they replied all the best to you. Seems like they're trying to pitch something. Phew. That's a narrow escape.

And heh, I can still use the I'm a student card.

[–] Naomikho@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I should play that card more often too, since I still lhave the looks of a uni student

[–] weecious@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] Naomikho@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I will XD I look much younger than I am so I can probably last another 2-4 years

[–] Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

How is you today? Feeling better?

[–] Naomikho@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah much better, although my stomach was trolling me in the morning. I ended up taking the day off

[–] Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Nice! Hope it's gone tomorrow

[–] Naomikho@monyet.cc 2 points 1 year ago

🙏got some medicine which makes it much more bearable now

[–] Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

Damn my back and shoulder ache

cry in old

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[–] zen@monyet.cc 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

has anyone come across lemmit.online? it runs a bot that can cross-post from subreddits (though it only does that for posts, and not comments).

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[–] oyenyaaow@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

feels so bad that my first thought about Hadi when he was hospitalised is if he passed away pas supporters will be going out in droves in the state elections to honour his passing.

[–] Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 2 points 1 year ago

Both also doesn't have a good outcome. If he died, he's a martyr, people will come in drove to vote for PAS. If he survive, he's god chosen/miracle, people will come in drove to vote for PAS.

Seriously annoying religious stupid, or in short, SARS.

[–] rakyat@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Also Sanusi might replace him as the leader. I’m not sure if that’s a better outcome, he’s still terrible but I suspect more popular.

[–] ruk_n_rul@monyet.cc 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

What sick alt universe we're in when our choices are either hadussy or sanussy

[–] cendawanita@monyet.cc 3 points 1 year ago

Why did u put those words where my eyes can see them 😔

[–] weecious@monyet.cc 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What a terrible day to have eyes

[–] ruk_n_rul@monyet.cc 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I'm really sorry, you two. Please accept this picture of a cat.

[–] cendawanita@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago

Kisseh the belleh

[–] yong1996@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] yong1996@monyet.cc 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] weecious@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Hmm, I should buy hash browns to belanja my colleagues.

[–] sleepy@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)
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[–] aerir@lemmy.aerir.xyz 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] sabaku_no_gaara@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Can someone who has grasped the situation of today Meta joining Fediverse via Threads explain me if it's a bad thing or a good thing?

Some say it's bad because Meta can easily access data of all us here on Lemmy/Mastodan/Kbin and our content can appear in their instance which they can monetize it for free.

Some say it's good because it draws more people to Fediverse and thereby more activity on our instances.

[–] cendawanita@monyet.cc 3 points 1 year ago

if you have the patience: https://privacy.thenexus.today/should-the-fediverse-welcome-surveillance-capitalism/

this is genuinely a good summary of the implications of Threads, but if you have any questions I can have a crack at it.

On the privacy thing, you have to remember, it's not apple-to-apple comparison, it's an apple-to-oranges. what your server needs to have from you in order the service you, is not at all the same as what meta does do as a rule, even as you leave the platforms. AP is quite leaky though, no doubt (i've raised this separately on kbin.social), but it's not the same issue, and is being worked on, because federation means someone is working on a solution somewhere.

but basically the contention is mainly on 3.5 areas:

  • privacy and surveillance - as above
  • market domination of open source standards - ask anyone running their own mailserver these days what's their rate of success sending anything to gmail or Office365 addresses (a lot of my work involve african IP addresses and institutions and they really kena)
  • the protection of minority groups, both from infra pov as well as modding pov - meta famously do not give a shit; many ppl in fedi are from minority identities (2017-18 wave for example got onto mastodon because it was available as trolls attacking queer ppl got worse on twitter). infra pov is related to the privacy question; but smaller instances at least can jaga their members better and boot out haters and defederate from instances who won't control their members. this is the modding pov that is a critical difference from meta, which brings us to point 3.5
  • capacity - small instances like this for example, got admin and mods who need to sleep. if trolls coming from diff timezones, how? belum lagi touch on traffic capacity issue.

sekian timakacih

[–] rakyat@monyet.cc 2 points 1 year ago

The only thing I can say is people on mastodon has been squabbling over this particular topic for a long while

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