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I had been feeling a bit drawn in to reddit for the past few months before the divorce. I feel like the slower pace at which content comes out on Lemmy is good for me in that way. I can't just scroll and scroll and scroll my entire day away.

Does anyone else feel similar?

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[–] lunarshot 66 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I definitely find the content to be deeper and more meaningful. I like the slower pace but I find myself excited to see posts with lots of comments.

[–] Quill7513@slrpnk.net 32 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

There also seems to be a deeper sense of community, at least in a few instances and communities, than I've experienced in a long time, excluding some of the more niche-er subs

[–] CaptainDogwater 12 points 1 year ago

I've engaged more with posts on Lemmy than all of my years on Reddit due to the deeper sense of community.

It's really cut down the amount of endless doom scrolling I'd do throughout the day as well

It sort of feels like the old days of reddit. I had forgotten how nice it was.

[–] dingus@lemmy.ml 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

deeper and more meaningful

Ah yes, like the "how do I not poop for 3 days?" post.

[–] anteaters@feddit.de 4 points 1 year ago

Instant classic

[–] TrontheTechie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 32 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I definitely see it as a double edge sword. On one hand I don’t mindlessly scroll as much, on the other, the lack of content is just because I’m figuring out the quirks, and I have a feeling finding new and weird communities could be a McGuffin quest.

[–] brihuang95@sopuli.xyz 14 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I've been constantly going on https://browse.feddit.de/ to see if there any new communities that I'd like to join. Really do wish it were easier to discover communities but it is what it is

[–] Emperor@feddit.uk 14 points 1 year ago

You could try sub.rehab for a list of sub equivalents.

[–] tgxn@lemmy.tgxn.net 5 points 1 year ago (5 children)
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[–] BrainisfineIthink@lemmy.one 27 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Idk about everyone else, but I sort by new on Lemmy and "all" WAY more than I ever would on reddit. Even sorting by new or all on reddit it just shuffles around the same 100 posts they want you to see. Here people post about all kinds of stuff!

[–] Jimbo@yiffit.net 4 points 1 year ago

I feel like sorting by new on reddit for many years has just kinda been a cesspool. Like 1 post worth seeing per page lol

[–] JshKlsn@lemmy.ml 24 points 1 year ago (2 children)

No, honestly.

I hate that the algorithm is super broken and the only meaningful sort option is "TopDay", which means Lemmy is only good for me to look at once every day at the same time.

Admittedly, I'm so bored, I open Boost for Reddit for more content.

Really hope more content comes to lemmy before third party apps shut down.

[–] Tywele@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 1 year ago

Since the 0.18 update I find that the sorting is working pretty well. I also like that there are now options for Top 1 Hour, Top 6 Hour and Top 12 Hours.

[–] notmyredditusername@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Agree. I find the slower pace or lack of an algorithm or whatever it is is leading to me opening lemmy, then kbin around once or twice per day (have 2 accounts and slightly different subs between them which is frustrating in itself).

Then I find myself back on reddit for a bit more scrolling, particularly of the communities I haven't found an alternative for or that are still more active on reddit.

I suspect this will change come July when the Relay app that I use on mobile presumably ceases to function due to the API changes. And my routine will just be kbin/lemmy (hoping for a unified app soon on android). But I'm not sure that's necessarily a bad thing and might reduce my overall screen time a bit.

Still, I am sad the reddit golden age is effectively over at this point.

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[–] Zangoose@lemmy.one 20 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Honestly It's been way worse for me lol, the discussions here are actually meaningful so I can sink way too much time reading threads instead of getting bored after looking at 5 consecutive reposted memes on reddit

Edit: I'm not complaining though, this is definitely better

[–] mr_washee_washee@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

i hope the bulk of reddit stay where they are now. we dont need those really. also so many instances to read from. we dont seem to be running out of content here any time soon.

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[–] tappyturtle@programming.dev 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I've become used to the endless stream of content from Reddit, so a part of me says no and the other says yes

[–] WoodenDing@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yup, when i mindlessly open lemmy something in my brain doeant jive.

But i really hope i get away from that quick dopamine chase.

[–] wildeaboutoskar 2 points 1 year ago

It's definitely something we need to train ourselves out of. How depressing that a few years of social media has changed us that much

[–] marin 16 points 1 year ago

The lack of unwanted rage bait posts and karma farmers has improved my mood by a lot. I gotta be honest though, I’m still scrolling through Apollo and giving myself my last dopamine hits before July 1st. Won’t miss that place

[–] SpicyTofuSoup@lemmy.sdf.org 16 points 1 year ago (2 children)

No. I really hope a few million users move over to lemmy and make it a bigger platform. I want to see more diverse content more frequently. I don't need infinite content like on Reddit but I don't want to see the same posts days in a row.

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[–] thefloatingpoint@feddit.de 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yes, kinda, sorta. It’s like an addict going cold turkey. I feel the urge for a faster paced feed from time to time. It’s unsettling how much I’ve been accustomed to this kind of BS.

[–] Jfqs6m@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

Exactly! It's like I didn't realize how much I was itching for the next blue link until it wasn't readily available. It really helped out things in perspective for me.

[–] jjdelc@lemmy.ml 15 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I feel more the lack of my favorite communities that haven't made the jump. Some alternative attempts exist here but are dead. I miss the variety of topics and random discovery as well.

[–] a_statistician@programming.dev 4 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I miss the /r/legaladvice drama and the fun on /r/bestoflegaladvice. That was my go-to "take a break and feel better about my life" sub where I would also learn things occasionally.

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[–] Dirk@lemmy.ml 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Being used to high-traffic subreddits it's definitely a change one needs to adapt to. But I slowly start enjoying it. I just wish there was more non-meta content. Most of it is directly or indirectly related to Lemmy oder the Fediverse in general.

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[–] supermurs@suppo.fi 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I do, but sometimes I get a feeling that I'm not seeing all the content I should be seeing.

[–] Jfqs6m@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

I think that's the feeling that I don't miss. It was like with reddit I could always get that fix. There was plenty of blue links left to satiate my dopamine drip. With Lemmy, the content is a lot less so I don't feel the need to just scroll and scroll. I hope on, get my kick, hit the end for that day, then go back to doing stuff IRL.

[–] Driftking@lemmy.ml 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I don't know. Feels like a lot of content is mirrored from reddit, just with less engagement. That being said the quality is a lot higher. I also like that there are less comments trying to be comedians with quirky one liners

[–] Tywele@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 year ago

I think that's also due to there being no visible karma score on your account. I really like that.

[–] MrFunnyMoustache@lemmy.ml 8 points 1 year ago

For the popular communities, yes. For the smaller niche communities it just feels empty and sad. Hope this platform catches on so the "there's a subreddit for everything" quote could be a thing here too.

[–] Leilys@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 1 year ago

I think I find it a bit harder to find exactly what I'm looking for on Lemmy for support and help on various topics. So, it's good and bad. When it becomes easier to search for content Lemmy will definitely improve on that front.

I'm still discovering new instances every day and it has been a much more slow paced browsing experience due to load times and the frequency of new content.

It's definitely a different (but in no way worse) experience to what I'm used to on Reddit, but there's a whole lot less upsetting content (like personal stories of abuse and such) that show up on Lemmy, so I think it's been better for my mental health, even if I feel a bit less connected to the internet than before.

And let's be fair, it's probably for the best.

[–] itadakimasu@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 year ago

I'm personally opposite. Lack of content and discussion in my opinion. I'm yearning for more. Orders of magnitude more

[–] boonhet@lemm.ee 7 points 1 year ago

It's taken a bit to get accustomed to it, but I am finding that I can go longer periods without checking the feed now, so overall it's a positive effect.

[–] fossilesque@mander.xyz 5 points 1 year ago

If you ever need to scratch the itch for content, I suggest checking out https://upstract.com/ - you might even find something to contribute. ;)

[–] Captain_Jimmy_T_Kirk@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Reddit used to be slowly to refresh a long time ago, before they tweaked how the front page worked. You would pretty much have the top posts all day, and maybe it would change by the evening.

It was slower paced and fostered more discussion before people would move on, but it wasnt as good at giving the novelty dopamine hit compared to a faster churn.

That's what I was saying when I first came to Lemmy. This is how reddit used to be. Before the digg migration it wasn't uncommon to see the same posts on the front page for days at a time because they were so active. It also wasn't uncommon to check it in the morning, and then see mostly the same posts that night. But, like here, usually the comments have developed and you can chat and have friendly banter with people. Reddit at that time I think still had loads more users than Lemmy does now, but the vibe was way more akin to what Lemmy is in its current state.

[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 4 points 1 year ago

It's probably not going to last.

[–] Hillmarsh@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yes. Truthfully for the last 2-3 years I have been dismayed with the direction social media in general were going, not only Reddit. Here were the 3 major issues I had: 1- lower quality of content & the volume of bad content drowning out the good, 2- the corruption of the companies themselves, and 3- the toxic social environment with nasty behavior becoming the norm. I think that fragmenting the web into smaller and more distributed communities, with a slower pace, will probably be a good thing at this point in time.

PS I'm happy to admit the web has always had a dark side, but it had gotten noticeably much worse in recent years.

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[–] eleitl@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago (3 children)

No, it depends on the number of community subscriptions. Still not nearly the firehose that is Telegram.

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[–] king_dead 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Its very similar to the pace of the late 2000s which i like. Getting back to everything except the old school mozilla toolbars feels good

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[–] gina@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago

In the early 2000s there were a couple of different forums I liked, so once a day I’d walk over to the library to use the internet and catch up. I’ve missed having that kind of healthy relationship with the internet, haha.

[–] vegetarian_pacemaker@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

It is a blessing for someone like me who had a lot of difficulties to stay away from reddit. Lemmy gives me a slow paced window of reddit, with RSS feeds taking up the rest of the free time. So in the end the time I spend is more focussed on my interests but driven by reputable sites instead of someone in reddit.

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[–] ShittyKopper@lemmy.w.on-t.work 3 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Because of the slow nature of content I ended up being subscribed to more communities than I would have back at Reddit. My feed is still 99% 196 just like in Reddit, but instead of needing to pop into r/all or r/popular every few hours, the New Comments sort ends up "sprinkling" interesting stuff from other communities into my feed.

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[–] SapphicFemme@lib.lgbt 2 points 1 year ago
[–] andyMFK@reddthat.com 2 points 1 year ago

Yes absolutely! I like that I can basically catch up on all Lemmy content in an hour or so. It means I don't spend hours mindlessly scrolling (like I did with reddit) and gives me more time to do something more meaningful

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