this post was submitted on 17 Sep 2023
178 points (100.0% liked)

Asklemmy

1454 readers
35 users here now

A loosely moderated place to ask open-ended questions

Search asklemmy πŸ”

If your post meets the following criteria, it's welcome here!

  1. Open-ended question
  2. Not offensive: at this point, we do not have the bandwidth to moderate overtly political discussions. Assume best intent and be excellent to each other.
  3. Not regarding using or support for Lemmy: context, see the list of support communities and tools for finding communities below
  4. Not ad nauseam inducing: please make sure it is a question that would be new to most members
  5. An actual topic of discussion

Looking for support?

Looking for a community?

~Icon~ ~by~ ~@Double_A@discuss.tchncs.de~

founded 5 years ago
MODERATORS
 

Specifically thinking of stuff that make your life better in the long run but all kinds of answers are welcome!

I've recently learnt about lifetraps and it's made a huge positive impact on how I view myself and my relationships

top 50 comments
sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[–] MooseGas@kbin.social 78 points 1 year ago (3 children)

You can only help people who want to be helped. That goes for yourself, too. You can't help yourself until you actually have the desire to improve.

[–] SoylentBlake@lemm.ee 10 points 1 year ago

In the same vein, wanting different outcomes requires different incomes.

Take all your actions and add them up = this. If you wanted that not this, all your inputs need to be under the spotlight and changes made; including and especially habits, vices, behaviours, opinions, assumptions, collection and quality of knowledge, relationships, etc etc. Sometimes the cost or sacrifice from and of yr current self is large and largely invisible.

Being uncomfortable means you're learning. Learning means you're growing. If you're never uncomfortable, you haven't reached luxury and made it, you've reached stagnation and have stopped 'living' your life.

Choosing the lesser of two evils, or the devil you know, or never doing anything about a life you don't like or want, is cowardice and will slowly crush your soul into despair. Choosing the unknown might end up sucking, but it might be better. If the known is guaranteed to suck, take the unknown - at least there's hope there and despair, a feeling worse than pain, is a failing to find hope.

[–] Haui@discuss.tchncs.de 6 points 1 year ago

Pretty awesome advice!

load more comments (1 replies)
[–] unwellsnail@sopuli.xyz 75 points 1 year ago (2 children)

That "coronavirus 2 (SARS-CoV-2), the virus that causes COVID-19, can have lasting effects on nearly every organ and organ system of the body weeks, months, and potentially years after infection (11,12). Documented serious post-COVID-19 conditions include cardiovascular, pulmonary, neurological, renal, endocrine, hematological, and gastrointestinal complications (8), as well as death.".

This is true regardless of symptom severity or health status, every person is at risk. I think most people really aren't aware of this, they absorbed the narrative that it's gone, mild, only kills/harms the vulnerable, etc. This isn't really their fault, there are a lot of factors that have led people to that belief, but people should know their lives and livelihoods are much more at risk now than 4 years ago.

And that this isn't inevitable, there are simple methods of disrupting transmission and protecting yourself and others. COVID-19 is here to stay (unless we do something about that) and it has impacts on every person infected and on society at large. That shouldn't mean folks accept illness and worse quality of life. We adapt and adopt precautions in our life to reduce long-term health impacts, like we've done before with many other illnesses that plague humanity.

[–] athos77@kbin.social 24 points 1 year ago (1 children)

And the possible risks are compounded with each infection. People are acting like covid just isn't a problem anymore, like it's gone away. Meanwhile, roughly 100 Americans are dying of covid every day - and we're not even in a surge at the moment.

[–] agressivelyPassive@feddit.de 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm too lazy to verify your numbers, but realistically, covid nowadays is simply just another life risk. Yes, people are still dying and that's bad, but most of them are just in the age where people tend to die of such infections.

I'd guess, there are about 4 million deaths a year in a country the size of the US. So having something on the order of 100k per year due to covid isn't that concerning, if the lifespan isn't affected that much.

We have vaccinations against covid. If you're properly vaccinated, you'll probably be fine and younger children will grow up in a world where you just get covid once in a while and get better immunity than we old folks could ever have.

[–] makeasnek@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (9 children)

Get this though: many children still do end up hospitalized. The majority of them have no underlying comorbidities or conditions. Their only reason for ending up in hospital is luck of the draw. That was presented at the CDC meeting where the recent booster was approved. It's not just the elderly or infirm who end up in the hospital and die from it. It's still killing, hospitalizing, and making seriously ill way more people than flu.

load more comments (9 replies)
[–] makeasnek@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

To add to this, SiDock is an awesome project working on an open-source, patent-free, self-stable antiviral for covid using the computers of volunteers. Anybody can volunteer their spare computational power with a few clicks. I have been crunching it since 2020 and find it very fun.

[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 73 points 1 year ago (6 children)
  • Exercise grows your hippocampus
  • So do antidepressants according to recent research
  • Small hippocampal volume is an excellent predictor of depression and anxiety
  • Exercise grows your hippocampus, in a dose-dependent way
  • Exercise grows your hippocampus
  • Exercise grows your hippocampus

This is the most important fact I have ever learned.

[–] blanketswithsmallpox@kbin.social 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Excuse me what do you think is cult like about that?

[–] blanketswithsmallpox@kbin.social 16 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (5 children)

It straight up reads like cult craziness or crazy 2 am infomercials. HEAD ON! APPLY DIRECTLY TO FOREHEAD! I'm glad you've placebo'd yourself into happiness though lol.

You said Exercise grows your hippocampus in 4 different bullet points lmfao. Great, it increases size by 2%. It proves nothing about whether it affects depression in adults. In fact, the studies show they do jack shit except help memory lol.

Exercise training increased hippocampal volume by 2%, effectively reversing age-related loss in volume by 1 to 2 y.

More showing it means little to nothing:

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S1053811917309138

https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fphys.2017.00085/full

The effect of aerobic exercise on hippocampal volume in patients with psychotic disorders

Four studies examined the effect of aerobic exercise on hippocampal volume in people with schizophrenia or first episode psychosis (n = 107). Aerobic exercise did not significantly increase total hippocampal volume compared to control conditions (g = 0.149, 95% CI: -0.31 to 0.60, p = 0.53, Table 2). Among the two studies which reported effects on left/right hippocampus separately, there was no evidence of effects in either region (both p > 0.1). There was also no evidence of heterogeneity or publication bias influencing these results.

The effect of aerobic exercise on hippocampal volume in other populations

Data in other populations was insufficient for pooled meta-analyses, and so results from individual trials are summarised below. Individual trials which examined effects of aerobic exercise in patients with depression (Krogh et al., 2014), mild cognitive impairment (Brinke et al., 2014) and probable Alzheimer's disease (Morris et al., 2017) all found no significant effects on total or left/right hippocampal volumes. One study examining the effects of exercise in young-to-middle-aged adults found no change in total hippocampal volume but did find a significant increase in anterior hippocampal volume following 6 weeks of aerobic exercise (Thomas et al., 2016).

Effects of exercise in relation to participant age

Meta-regression analyses were performed to examine the relationship between mean sample age and effects of exercise on hippocampal volume. No statistically significant associations of effects of exercise with sample age were found for total, right or left hippocampal volume (all p > 0.05).

In conclusion, this meta-analysis found no effects of exercise on total hippocampal volume, but did find that exercise interventions retained left hippocampal volume significantly more than control conditions. As these positive effects were also observed among the subgroup of studies of healthy older adults, the findings hold promising implications for using exercise to attenuate age-related neurological decline. Currently, the overall quality of the evidence is compromised by the fact that 10 of the 12 studies included some risk of bias, therefore more high-quality RCTs are now required. In additional to RCTs, a prospective meta-analysis examining how changes in physical activity and fitness predict hippocampal retention/deterioration across the lifespan would provide novel insights into longer-term neural effects of exercise, while also reducing the impact of methodological heterogeneity often found across exercise RCTs. Further research is also required to determine effects in younger people (Riggs et al., 2016), and establish the neurobiological mechanisms through which exercise exerts these effects, in order to design optimal exercise programs for producing neurocognitive enhancements. However, the functional relevance of structural improvements has also yet to be ascertained. Nonetheless, the link between cardiorespiratory fitness with both structural and performance increases indicates this as a suitable target for aerobic training programs to improve brain health.

load more comments (5 replies)
[–] chahk 12 points 1 year ago

So hang on. Are you trying to tell me that exercise grows the hippocampus?

[–] Mothra@mander.xyz 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What do you mean by "in a dose dependent way"?

[–] snek_boi@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 year ago

I think it means more exercise leads to more growth.

[–] Nonameuser678@aussie.zone 5 points 1 year ago

So does meditation according to my psychiatrist

load more comments (2 replies)
[–] turbonewbe@lemm.ee 50 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Unless you are wealthy, if you think life is to expensive you should ask for more taxes, not less.

The issue is not your net income, but wealth redistribution and solidarity.

[–] aesopjah@lemm.ee 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Except for the part where they just make more tanks instead of give people insulin or whatever

[–] deadbeef79000@lemmy.nz 8 points 1 year ago

If you can, move to a first world country.

If not: revolution.

[–] Sir_Kevin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 42 points 1 year ago (8 children)

Magnetic USB connectors are a thing and can save your cables/devices not just from wear and tear (unplugging/replugging constantly) but also from cables being tripped over or otherwise pulled. Highly recommended if you're using VR! Sadly there are no standards to these.

load more comments (8 replies)
[–] NENathaniel@lemmy.ca 36 points 1 year ago (4 children)

The cable is the weakest link of Earbuds for durability.

IEM's with replaceable cables are readily available and getting very cheap & good these days (e.g. Moondrop Chu 2, Truthear Hola, etc)

load more comments (4 replies)
[–] pineapplelover@lemm.ee 33 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Keyboard shortcuts and basic computer knowledge. I'm in college and just existing with tech illiterate people is maddening.

[–] DogMuffins@discuss.tchncs.de 6 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Yeah IMO not so much shortcuts but file management is often lost on the old and the young.

What is a file. What is a file type. What is file size. Where do files go when you download them. What is your user directory. How do you rename files. What is a file sync app like google drive.

This stuff could save so many people so much time. Every day millions of professionals are emailing clients "Thanks for sending that though, but it looks like you've emailed me a shortcut instead of the actual file."

load more comments (3 replies)
load more comments (1 replies)
[–] UdeRecife@lemmy.sdfeu.org 33 points 1 year ago

When you're about to face a high risk, high reward situation, you should willfully, willingly start to hyperventilate, as this helps your brain ...

NEVER take any stranger's advice on the internet as credible without checking it with a specialist. This is especially true when said advice relates to your health and/or safety.

[–] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 30 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Cars are way more expensive than you think, and getting rid of it will make you happier and way wealthier.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ztHZj6QNlkM

[–] zer0hour@kbin.social 27 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Tires can get damaged internally and the only real way to tell is to dismount them from the rim. If there is internal damage they can potentially explode while being filled with air.

I see a lot of people filling up their tires while sitting straight infront of them and if they do explode it explodes straight outward. My tip is to connect the air gauge and then stand of to the side while filling, just in case.

[–] kobra@lemm.ee 18 points 1 year ago (6 children)

I have filled a lot of tires and I cannot think of a single time where I had appropriate equipment to inflate the tire from any position that wasn’t right in front of it.

load more comments (6 replies)
load more comments (1 replies)
[–] Hamartiogonic@sopuli.xyz 27 points 1 year ago

What wasn’t reasoned in, can’t be reasoned out. Many people who suffer from conspiratorial thinking need help and support more than evidence and debate.

[–] zemja@programming.dev 26 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Cement is highly alkaline. If wet cement comes in contact with your skin, it can cause third degree chemical burns. So don't write your name in wet cement like Bart Simpson.

load more comments (1 replies)
[–] wizzor@sopuli.xyz 19 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Lithium batteries are happiest between 20 and 80% state of charge. You should not store them outside of that range. Charging a little often also doesn't hurt your battery like many seem to believe.

Charging while cold is bad, but storing in cold is good.

Also, NiMh and NiCd batteries are different tha Lithium based ones. Check what type of battery you have. Phones and EVs are almost always lithium though.

[–] RalphWolf@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 year ago (2 children)

To be clear, a car that uses either gasoline or diesel will have a lead acid battery and not a lithium battery. Electric cars have lithium. Just to clear up any confusion.

load more comments (2 replies)
[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 18 points 1 year ago (2 children)

That GoodWill and Autism Speaks are not valid as charities/nonprofits.

load more comments (2 replies)
[–] impiri@lemm.ee 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

If someone tells you no or you try and fail at something, life actually just continues on from that point, and you can try other things

load more comments (1 replies)
[–] Colorcodedresistor@lemm.ee 14 points 1 year ago

You can't take money with you when you die.

[–] kandoh@reddthat.com 14 points 1 year ago (4 children)

The power in your punch comes from your legs.

load more comments (4 replies)
[–] Zacryon@feddit.de 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Take the following with a big spoon of salt, since I am not a lawyer. Those are the results of interest and some reading on that topic.

Insulting someone is illegal in Germany (Β§ 185 StGB). You can get financial penalties and in worst cases some jailtime. However, if you insult someone back immediately, those can cancel each other out and the judge can exempt both of you or one of you from punishment (Β§ 199 StGB). Furthermore, since it is considered a crime, you could, theoretically, detain the culprit in case they want to flee until you are able to get some identification on them, i.e., see their ID card, or until someone like the police arrives (Β§ 127 StPO). Also this is not okay if you already know the person or have easy means to determine their ID (e.g., your neighbour or someone working at a facility you visit). In all cases the proportionality of your actions are important. (Beating someone senseless just to detain them, because they called you an avocado in a mean way is certainly not okay. This might be slightly different however, if the person in question commited a violent crime and is still acting violently.)

load more comments (2 replies)
[–] hitmyspot@aussie.zone 10 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Fodmaps are sugars and sugar alcohols that many people struggle to process well. Lactose intolerance is commonly known but there are lots of others. Wheat fructans are in most gluten containing foods and may be why some people find gluten free diets beneficial even if not coeliac.

[–] state_electrician@discuss.tchncs.de 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)
load more comments (1 replies)
[–] sadcoconut@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago

Yeah and you can systematically work through the various FODMAPs to figure out which ones cause you problems. It's not that FODMAPs are all bad, it's that there are groups of foods that you might be sensitive to.

[–] GrayBackgroundMusic@lemm.ee 9 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Never heard of life traps. I googled it and it seems like marketing speak for psychological issues to deal with in therapy. Is that it means to you or something else?

load more comments (2 replies)
[–] sirico@feddit.uk 9 points 1 year ago (2 children)

If you're unsure which side of a path to be on especially with shared paths default to the national driving side. Bonus if you hear a bike bell don't jump to a side or call your dog into their path just keep doing what your doing

[–] Kelsenellenelvial@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The bike thing is real. So often I hit my bell or call out β€œon your left” when about to pass people from behind. About 50% of the time those people immediately move to the left, which is why I always try to indicate far enough in advance for them to get in my way, realize their mistake and move back before I catch up to them .

load more comments (1 replies)
load more comments (1 replies)
[–] nudnyekscentryk@szmer.info 6 points 1 year ago

All salespeople in every shop have negotiation brackets (well perhaps except grocery supermarkets) for most products and are willing to go down on the price if that may encourage you to buy. The negotiation wiggle space is normally included in the price and yeah, they do know you're uncomfortable haggling and will go out of their way to not discourage you from purchase.

Also, but this is something I only heard from a colleague, you can negotiate up to 40% off if you convince them to purchase the product using their employee discount (so bulk price) and split the difference off the record.

[–] Yerbouti@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Jazz was the most popular music during the 1st half of the XX century. It basically was what hip-hop is today, or rock was to the second half of the XX century.

load more comments (1 replies)
load more comments
view more: next β€Ί