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So I've switched to lemmy since the reddit meltdown started, experienced quite some withdrawal symptoms, occasionally turned back to reddit, more often logged out than logged in. Now I am merely using Lemmy occasionally and by far not as often as I used reddit before. No more doom scrolling.

So far so good.

Today I went on reddit for the first time in like 3 weeks straight (I couldn't do that for the last years... yeah, I was very addicted in hindsight). I just... I don't know what it is.

Reddit just isn't fun anymore.

I turned away after maybe 5 minutes. There were maybe 2-3 repost-worthy pics, one interesting video and a few small niche discussions that all went straight tits up within a few replies.

If I ask a question on lemmy, it usually is a straightforward, honest discussion. Almost no blaming of the posters or answerers misunderstandings or senseless answers. It goes a bit back and forth usually and people tend to thank each other for corrections. I can't remember when that happened on a reddit discussion. Maybe years back? Anyway, I'm not going back there anymore, not because I hate the CEO, but because reddit is not fun anymore. Lost all interest in it.

Did anyone of you have a similar experience?

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[–] Jah348@lemm.ee 66 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Idk I don't exactly find Lemmy a bastion of my interests. It's very clear the community is far smaller. The niche communities of topics im interested are mostly nonexistent and it's largely a sea of memes and references I don't remotely understand or care to. Something about communists or some shit? What? Pass.

[–] gabe@literature.cafe 18 points 1 year ago (3 children)

What interests do you have that aren't found here? Some tiny niche interest communities are being built, you sometimes just gotta find em

[–] SgtSilverLining@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)
  • there's half a dozen sewing communities, but no one posts in them
  • fashion communities are also barren
  • pretty sure I'm the only person posting in !DCComics@lemmy.ml out of 200 subscribers. I'm not a mod there (the og mod is an empty account with no comments/posts) and it's not a community I want to recreate on my instance.
[–] maniel@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

same with food, apparently there's no foodies here, as there is a serious lack of burgers/pizza/ramen/pho communities, people shared their photos, recipes etc on reddit

[–] Blaze@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Did you have a look at !foodporn@lemmy.world ? I see it popping in my feed every day

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[–] transmatrix@lemm.ee 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Yeah, lots of niche communities are dead compared to their subreddit counterparts. Examples: OnePiece, AvatarTLA, VentureBros, Plex, and the subreddit for my town. I’m hoping this changes over time, but I still find myself going back to Reddit periodically.

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[–] sylverstream@lemmy.nz 6 points 1 year ago

Fitness, /r/fitness is in the top 20 or so.

Food and icecream.

It seems mainly tech talk here, and anti Windows everywhere.

But based on my posts, someone decided to replace his petrol car with a Leaf. Someone else got into Home Assistant because of me. So it has its goods sides as well.

[–] Milan@feddit.nl 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

If you're looking for a community that doesn't exist, you gotta create it. People will come.

[–] RampageDon@lemmy.ml 22 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Not OP but the issue isn't creating the space, but creating content in that space. Growing a community is a lot of work. Unless you already have some strong engagement and or a few people creating content it's really just up to you to keep making post until the community gets more traction. Most people like the idea of starting the new community but not the work it requires as it often just feels like yelling into the void.

[–] Cube6392 13 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Community building is more about moderation and evangelism than it is about clicking a button. Its a ton of work. People think a lot of the time you just kinda declare a forum and then it happens. I moderated a community of like 5 people for a while and even just THAT was exhausting and time consuming

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[–] gabe@literature.cafe 3 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I mean the organic growth of my book and writing focused instance has been pretty solid. It's not giant, but the people are there. When community discovery is better in lemmy it'll improve as well.

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[–] AlexWIWA@lemmy.ml 27 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I've noticed Reddit is full of people who just don't understand how Reddit is supposed to work. Comments stopped being fun and it just feels like Facebook now

[–] GreatAlbatross@feddit.uk 7 points 1 year ago

It's funny, I was noticing that. A little bit eternal-september-ish, fewer people willing to gently nudge people to the way it worked, more people not learning.

[–] eldrichhydralisk@lemmy.sdf.org 13 points 1 year ago

I've occasionally ended up on Reddit accidentally when following a search link. Which immediately blasts me with notifications and pushy requests to browse in some other way than I want to. After using Lemmy for this long, which lets me peacefully do my thing my way, it comes off as really rude even before I get to the comments.

At this point, I've actually started actively avoiding Reddit links in my searches. I can generally find the info I need somewhere else without getting yelled at by the website.

[–] Sev@feddit.uk 13 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

I’m back to Reddit, I kinda gave up here, but I’ll look a couple of times a week.

Too much politics. Linux. Privacy. Bidet talk. ADHD. Bad memes. Techbabble. Snore

No matter the filters I just can’t get an interesting feed, I just blocked about 6 political subs just today - it’s kinda shitty content imo (for me anyway)

I’m happy this exists but the rage honeymoons over for me. Old habits die hard I guess …..now……..back to arguing with bots!!

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[–] orbituary@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 1 year ago

I went over for an article I found. Scrolled out of morbid curiosity. It's just awful. Ended up commenting about it and was down voted back to hell, apparently where I'm told o belong.

[–] HellAwaits@lemm.ee 9 points 1 year ago

I love Lemmy and reddit, but I couldn't stand how reddit was data harvesting if you looked at how many trackers were being blocked. Like literally in the thousands. It was completely out of control.

I would by lying if I said I didn't miss it. There's far more content on there and far more engagement. Lemmy is cool and all, but it doesn't even remotely compare.

[–] atlasraven31@lemm.ee 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah, I still exist on reddit for news or a few niche communities. I see a lot of the recycled memes and point gaming. The few discussions get no traction or an overwhelming response. You can't really argue with anyone. It becomes ad-hominem and hurt feelings.

[–] Spike@feddit.de 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I see a lot of the recycled memes

I think the % of OPs that are just straight up reposting bots has increased considerably. Front page is even more unusable than during TheDonald times...

Its just low quality trash.

[–] AlexWIWA@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

It's because the bots that we relied on to catch repost bots no longer work thanks to the API changes.

/R/gaming has become far more difficult to mod without those tools

[–] Wage_Slave@kbin.social 8 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Depending on which subs you see, the assholes have won. Holy shit the amount of right wing bullshit that got into the place. Like wallstreet silver. I didn't much give a shit before it started looking like the front page of diet stormfront.

The remaining mods are at large, S class window lickers and ableist who have been applying to get a position for years and just now get their chance to goatse the corpse of what was once a great website. Started seeing tons of people getting banned for the most petty of shit. Buddy of mine got a 30 day ban for linking another sub reddit in his comment.

Of course, I got banned too. on my 12th cake day no less, for saying a kids attitude was going to get him beat up in high school or worse.

But if anything, there are so many folks out there that can say they were there before they got spez'd and the assholes took over. It was nice for a while, but in the end, fuck reddit.

[–] 1984@lemmy.today 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

It used to be that banning was reserved for some extreme people. Now, you can get banned for stating an opinion that others think is offensive.

Things have changed a lot in the last decades. People get offended by anything now.

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[–] indigomirage@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Honestly, the main reason is no fun anymore is the lack of a decent app (I loved BaconReader - YMMV). Since the UX has been downgraded severely (most have lost their preferred app), the user base, community and content have suffered.

I'd have been content to pay a reasonable subscription fee to keep using BaconReader. I'd even pay for ad removal - I'm not after a free ride. However, an enjoyable ride is now unavailable be it free or paid.

So, here's Lemmy. I hope it works out long term, but the growing pains associated with scaling are not to be underestimated. I suspect the challenges will be less technical in nature than in user wrangling and moderation. (though running the tech ops mustn't be underestimated).

TLDR - Yes.

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[–] gowan@reddthat.com 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

A lot of my favorite subs aren't the same. Many are gone. Askhistorians has even dimmed a bit. Pretty much the porn is the only thing left

[–] Blaze@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 1 year ago

Hopefully Lemmy porn instances will catch up as well

[–] scytale@lemm.ee 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I only check back once in a while for my city’s sub because the lemmy equivalent isn’t as active yet. I no longer have an interest in checking out r/all or the frontpage.

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[–] JokeDeity@lemm.ee 6 points 1 year ago

I think for the way I personally used Reddit, Lemmy still feels lacking, and I'm excited for it to grow. The good news is it's getting bigger every day and niche communities are being created all the time, so we'll get there. But there's no doubt a treasure trove of question and answer posts on Reddit that I still need to access at times, so it's still useful to me in that regard, but I'm not actively checking it at all anymore.

[–] Hamartiogonic@sopuli.xyz 5 points 1 year ago

During the APIcalypse I deleted my glorious multireddits and unsubscribed from nearly all the subreddits. This way I’ve intentionally made my Reddit experience very boring. Now that my favorite Reddit app is dead, I have to use a mobile browser, and the experience is… well not as bad as with the official app, that’s for sure. But it it’s still unpleasant or boring.

Because of all that, I don’t visit Reddit anywhere as often as I used to. Nowadays I check Reddit maybe once a week, browse for a few minutes, get infuriated by the ads and move on to something nicer like doing the dishes or folding my laundry.

[–] townfox@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I occasionally go there but for specific reasons. No more late night browsing for me.

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[–] harpuajim@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 year ago

I still use it from time to time because sometime I just need the information I'm looking for. I've justified it telling myself that I'm using it 1/100th of the time I used tt and only use it when necessary.

[–] kratoz29@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago

Yes I have gotten back from time to time, mostly because my Sync for Reddit app is still patched and makes it easier to not use their garbage app (which I don't even have installed).

And no, it still feels interesting to me, not with r/all nor my frontpage with best sort (this was my main page) but my handhelds multi reddit.

I am subbed to similar communities here, but it is just not the same... Yet.

[–] boringbisexual@lib.lgbt 5 points 1 year ago

The only thing I miss is HighStrangeness which was fun to go through every once in a while. The rest of reddit isn't really worth looking at. But here there are tech nerds and Linux enthusiasts ~~and pirates~~ everywhere! I am among my people.

[–] TomMasz@kbin.social 4 points 1 year ago

It's really different, that's for sure. The front page is full of subreddits I've never seen much (or any) of before. Comments on posts seem lower by an order of magnitude on the most popular ones. I don't know about site visits but engagement seems way down. How u/spez will spin it for the IPO remains to be seen.

[–] mp3@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 year ago

I logged out and deleted it from my bookmarks. I avoid it unless I absolutely don't have any other sources.

[–] haganbmj@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I only go for one community surrounding a book series, and only on Mondays when there are weekly discussion threads for new chapters. I found reddit pretty easy to cut out when I just stopped using it on mobile entirely.

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[–] gabe@literature.cafe 4 points 1 year ago

The only time I go to reddit is to look at r/redditalternatives and witness whatever drama is going on within the newest centralized attempt at reddit that week

[–] Metaright@kbin.social 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Don't be too complacent, of course. I've seen people on the Fediverse turn feral and Reddit-esque during discussions of particular culture war issues. It's not completely peachy here all the time; there are some subjects about which some people can't help losing their composure.

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[–] null@slrpnk.net 3 points 1 year ago

It was that way for a bit at the beginning. I found the quality of discussion here was much better, and reddit was just super toxic by comparison.

I've noticed the general toxicity has creeped into Lemmy now though, so it's kinda the same either way for me now.

[–] Xariphon@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I only go back sometimes because I find more cute anime content there than here.

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[–] coolin 3 points 1 year ago

Reddit since changed the UI again which killed my interest in scrolling r/all. I still have to go there to view r/localllama, r/singularity and r/UFOs, none of which have a sizeable Feddit equivalent. I could do without the speculation of the latter 2 in my life, but I need LocalLlama because it is a great source for news and advice on LLMs.

[–] Jah348@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago

The vibe I get from a lot of the political and antiwork stuff is astroturfing and/or highschoolers. It's a bunch of meme-driven babble that started as a solid pro union anticapatilistic sentiment that grew into nonsense.

I also find it harder to isolate communities I don't care to be brigaded by. I politically involved enough in my own life. Memes on memes on memes.

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