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[–] jeremy@midwest.social 216 points 1 year ago (3 children)
[–] OwenEverbinde@lemmy.myserv.one 23 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The entire industry is built on catering to the vast swaths of women who get ignored by doctors and need somewhere to turn.

I highly suspect doctors are taught in medical school, "women are over emotional and prone to exaggeration."

Hell, "hysteria" was considered a valid diagnosis until the 1950s.

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Also homeopathy.

[–] GnuLinuxDude@lemmy.ml 207 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Private health insurance is the biggest fucking scam ever. The private insurance companies benefit by getting the aggregate healthiest population into their plans (working adults). The most likely to be expensive people, i.e. old people (on medicare) or poor people (on medicaid, or not even on an insurance plan) are on government, tax payer insurance plans. There is literally no reason except for corporate profiteering that Medicare should not be expanded to cover all people.

Also all those conversations, especially in the 2020 election period, were totally bullshit. You say something like M4A will cost 44 trillion dollars or whatever, which sounds like an insane amount of money. What is often left out of the discussion is that estimated cost was 1) over 10 years and 2) has to be weighed against the current costs we already pay for insurance. So the deal was very simple: the overall costs would go down because the overall spending would be less, and at the same time millions of people without coverage would be covered, and at the same time you don't have to contemplate stupid bullshit like in network, out of network providers. Or ever again talk to your insurance about why something is or isn't covered. Boils my blood when I think too much about this.

Not even gonna weigh in on things like how medicare can't negotiate prescription drug prices (https://www.nytimes.com/2023/07/23/us/politics/medicare-drug-price-negotiations-lawsuits.html), or how dental, vision, and hearing are treated separately from general healthcare, or how med school is prohibitively expensive, or how the residents after med school are overworked because the guy who institutionalize that practice was literally a cokehead. Those are all just bonus topics. The point is we are getting fleeced.

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[–] MiDaBa@lemmy.ml 172 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The stock market and publicly traded companies. The idea that a business that is making consistent profits isn't good unless those profits are increased each quarter is asinine. This system of shortsighted hyper focus on short term quarterly growth for the sake of growth is the cause of so much pain and suffering in the world. Even companies with amazing financials will work to push workers compensation down, cut corners and exploit loopholes to make sure their profits are always growing. Consistent large profits aren't good enough.

[–] AssholeDestroyer@lemmy.ml 36 points 1 year ago

Instapot. Instapot made too good of a product, most people buy one and its good for years. That's good for consumers but terrible for investors. The company that bought them out and took them public saddled them with a ton of debt from other sectors and now they're bankrupt.

[–] 1984@lemmy.today 125 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Subscriptions.

People pay every month but most don't use the sub to it's full value, and forget how expensive it becomes over the years. And you don't own anything on a subscription, you just borrow it.

Also trial periods that prolong automatically into subscriptions.

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[–] unscholarly_source@lemmy.ca 111 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

My personal top 3:

  • insurance
  • subscriptions
  • Google and similar data hungry companies (while not a financial scam but moreso a privacy scam, companies like Google and Meta profiteering on our personal data without our knowledge or awareness)
[–] buckykat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 102 points 1 year ago (11 children)

Car based infrastructure

the stock market

capitalism

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[–] squaresinger@feddit.de 99 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Unpaid overtime.

Framing "fulfilling your contract" as "silent quitting".

In what other context would be "delivering what's in the contract" anything less than satisfactory?

When I buy a litre of milk and the box contains exactly a litre of milk it isn't "silent stealing" either.

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[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 82 points 1 year ago (7 children)

Wedding rings/diamonds in general.

The tradition isn't as old as people think and was literally started by a jewelry company to sell more jewelry. Specifically diamonds, which are not as rare as commonly believed and if not for the false scarcity and misinformation, would be dirt cheap.

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[–] andthenthreemore@startrek.website 78 points 1 year ago (5 children)

First Past the Post voting at elections.

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[–] mats@feddit.de 72 points 1 year ago (37 children)

Windows. You pay ~100€ just to give your personal data to MS and get a bloated OS that will use all of your resources. Even MacOS is a more fair deal than this.

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[–] DarkDarkHouse@lemmy.sdf.org 70 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Professors requiring their own, expensive textbook for their course.

[–] thedirtyknapkin@lemmy.ml 22 points 1 year ago (2 children)

worse than that is professors being required by the school's contract with the textbook company to tell you to buy a book that they have no intent on using because it's awful. that was way way more common for me.

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[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 59 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Capitalism and the 5 day 9 to 5 work week

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[–] WetBeardHairs@lemmy.ml 58 points 1 year ago

Real estate agents getting 6% commission from the seller.

[–] terminhell@lemmy.dbzer0.com 58 points 1 year ago (3 children)
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[–] Stoneykins@mander.xyz 57 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

Car dealerships. They are awful on purpose. In many places car manufacturers are not legally allowed to sell their cars directly to customers, in order to create what is essentially legally mandated car dealerships, which all suck.

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[–] original_ish_name@lemm.ee 57 points 1 year ago (3 children)

The price for glasses. It's like this because of a stupid duopoly

[–] Cube6392 22 points 1 year ago

And the person selling you out glasses out front is for legal reasons a separate business from the doctor who prescribed you the glasses in the back. They don't at any point make it clear to you that you are legally entitled to not buy glasses there, you can ask for your prescription, take it home with you, and find a good deal online. Its a dark UI pattern in real life. Its the exact same psychological thing that's going on when a retailer defaults the "sign up for promotional emails?" tickbox to enabled

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[–] Peddlephile@lemm.ee 54 points 1 year ago

Private health insurance.

Banks.

[–] Krulsprietje@lemm.ee 52 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Printer inkt. In our shop people are still buying them for a way to high price…

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[–] CorrodedCranium@leminal.space 52 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Dollar stores. A lot of the time they are profiting by selling you a smaller quantity at a slightly lower price. They target low income communities.

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[–] notme@feddit.de 49 points 1 year ago (7 children)
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[–] phoenixz@lemmy.ca 49 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (20 children)

Car centric cities. Cities can and should be designed for people, keeping cars mostly out. The result is beautiful cities designed for people that make governments lots of money but the car companies will be earning a little less, ooffff

Make cities walkable, create actual safe roads for bikes, create 15 minute cities.

Look at the Netherlands, it damn works awesome

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[–] Skeith@discuss.online 48 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

Homes as wealth-creators.

Americans take it as received wisdom that homes are meant to generate income through higher valuations over time. We just assume home prices go up over time and if it's not actively increasing in value, the home was a failure.

Many other countries don't treat homes this way. They are dwellings, invest what you want to your liking, but it's not a retirement account.

This focus on wealth generation creates lots of perverse incentives, such as exclusionary zoning, building on lots that are overly large, and suburban sprawl. These don't reflect people's actual, desired form of housing but rather maximize wealth for homeowners at the expense of everyone else.

We have a completely warped view of housing that causes us to be preyed upon by real estate agents, landlords, HOAs and the like.

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[–] nickiam2@aussie.zone 46 points 1 year ago (4 children)
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[–] Commiunism@lemmy.wtf 44 points 1 year ago

The notion that capitalism is the end-all be-all of how society functions/works.

[–] BilboBallbins@lemm.ee 41 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (12 children)

Shampoo: Washing away the natural oils in our hair, causing the body to produce them in higher volume, causing our hair to get greasy, creating a need for shampoo.

Recycling: Only about 10% of plastic is actually recycled, the rest is sold to countries without environmental laws, and they are dumped irresponsibly. Composting is simple, effective, and would reduce landfill use by about 30%, not to mention creating a useful end product. Yet it is rarely promoted.

Mattresses and box springs: They are worse on our spines and end up causing neck and back issues. Sleeping on a firmer surface, even a thin mattress or pad on the ground, alleviates these issues.

Lawns: Turning a useful piece of land on which we can grow food into a barren wasteland and making it into a chore that requires expensive equipment and encourages chemical use.

Sales tax on food: Some countries and US states have them. It's a tax on existence. Also, taxes on gym memberships and personal protective equipment. The government simultaneously claims it wants healthy, safe citizens, and charges them when they try to be healthy and safe.

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[–] zozo 41 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Video games having microtransactions and "chests" or otherwise with random rewards.

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[–] faintwhenfree@lemmus.org 40 points 1 year ago (2 children)
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[–] MariaTacobellina 39 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Chiropractic.

I'd wager fewer than 25% of Americans know that it's quackery invented in the 1890s.

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[–] original_reader@lemmy.ml 39 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

The way mobile providers charge. The likes of Vodafone, any random Telecom, T-Mobile and so forth. It's a huge scam, bordering theft sometimes. Want samples? Here we go:

"Your credit expires in x days. Better recharge now to not lose it!" (Banks should start doing this /s)

"Your credit has expired. Better give us more money within our generous deadline, or else we are forced to delete your number. We love you."

"Your data has expired. We now charge you a horrendous amount every minute, because we are too greedy to warn you in time. For technical reasons we also cannot stop you from using data after your allowance has been used. Fortunately you still have credit, huh?"

"Your data expires today. We don't insult your intelligence by telling you when. Surely you remember when you bought the package, right? It's not hard to count 24 hours. We also do not send any SMS anymore to save the environment."

"Your data has expired. You need data to buy a new bundle. Our app charges data for our convenience."

"Social media data only works for WhatsApp, but not for Signal. But who uses Signal anyways?"

"Use our customer friendly support chat. Conveniently it uses data. 'Hello, I am your smart bot speaking. How can I help you? I might understand you if you type one of the three questions I have been programmed to answer. Do you want to know more about our products?'"

Edit: added point 2, minor corrections for clarity

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[–] Spesknight@feddit.it 34 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Lemmy just made a suggestion

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[–] Colorcodedresistor@lemm.ee 29 points 1 year ago

competition. You like Brand A? and dislike Brand B? both are owned by C

[–] jucelc@lemmy.wtf 25 points 1 year ago

DLCs: Games are expected to have DLCs nowadays, so game devs purposefully hold back some ideas for potential DLCs, often crippling the main game as a result.

Subscription services: For pretty much anything, but especially those automated monthly payments, which you won't bother cancelling, even if you feel like you're not using the service to its fullest.

[–] soviettaters@lemm.ee 25 points 1 year ago

Asking this question every single week.

[–] abraxas@lemmy.ml 25 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (12 children)

Herbalife, fucking herbalife.

This weekend, I went into what looked like an indie smoothie shop and dropped an ungodly amount of money on a delicious sounding shake... only to watch the lady drop a scoops of powder and ONE freeze-dried strawberry into a cup with ice. Tasted like ass.

Yet they do have regulars to that shit, and nobody is taking them out of business. I want my fucking $11 back. So anyone reading this doing a class action against Herbalife, I want in...

But I doubt it, since it's a scam that's so normalized we don't realize it's a scam anymore.

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[–] snaptastic 24 points 1 year ago (4 children)
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[–] rodbiren@midwest.social 23 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (5 children)

Would be far easier to name things that are not a scam and assume the rest is just a scam in waiting.

Libraries, Pets, Sunrises/sets, Nigerian princes needing loans, Mr. Rogers

Everything else is probably looking to take money from you in some fashion.

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[–] sounddrill@lemmy.antemeridiem.xyz 23 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Most security on consumer hardware

Let's take android for example. There are legitimate security implementations like SELinux, full disk encryption but something like samsung's knox is useless outside of enterprise use and kills OS level modifications

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[–] Fluke@discuss.online 22 points 1 year ago (5 children)

I'll try to list things that aren't in the typical internet echo chamber. Bring on the controversy. These are just my opinions.

50% of the shelf space at the grocery store is just different forms of corn syrup, sometimes with some trans fat mixed in, generationally twisting our idea of what food is in a race to the cheapest, most addictive product.

The only way it's profitable for someone to knock on your door to sell ANYTHING is if they are obscenely inflating the price (think 100-600% markup)

Most supplements, especially expensive ones with TV ads

Dr Scholl's and the goodfeet store

Genuine leather is just about the opposite of what you'd think

Bamboo fabric which is pretty much just a different way to say rayon but is pitched as a revolutionary and environmentally friendly cloth

Most bladeless fans just hide fan blades in the base

Many cleaning products don't do better than diluted soap and water (even for sanitizing) especially the ones with TV ads

Financial planners who are actually financial product salespeople

Most single-purpose kitchen gadgets, especially as-seen-on-TV

The realtors racket: I just paid $30k for an internet posting and mediocre advice

Many personal hygiene products are just repackaging the same two or three active ingredients by the same one or two megacorporations

Essential oils (even ignoring mystical claims) big names charge an order of magnitude higher than they should

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[–] bit101@lemm.ee 21 points 1 year ago (1 children)

College. The learning is fine, the cost is freaking out of hand. I never went and have no regrets. My daughter is going now and I feel like I'm supporting a scam.

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[–] RelativeArea0@startrek.website 21 points 1 year ago (3 children)
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[–] sparky@lemmy.federate.cc 21 points 1 year ago (2 children)
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[–] Thundernuggets@reddthat.com 19 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Giving money to politicians.

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