Bench press your toddler. They’re heavy.
But also schedule time during the week when the kid is distracted/somewhere else/mail them to in-laws or parents.
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Bench press your toddler. They’re heavy.
But also schedule time during the week when the kid is distracted/somewhere else/mail them to in-laws or parents.
Housework and playing (so long as it involves bodily movement) with children count as exercise. It's just not Gym!Bro approved exercise but it absolutely is exercise.
And every time you lift your child, consider it a medicine ball or kettlebell lift. Because those devices are actually used to approximate the reality motions you are going through.
What you used to be is lean. You are still fit.
I hear you. My wife and I both work full time. The only option is weekends and one parent has to take kid duties. It's frustrating and exhausting, but we manage to squeeze in a tiny bit of fitness.
Hello fellow parent. I also don’t have any extended family close and I went from workingout 6 days a week to barely doing two days a week.
I think one question needs to be asked first:
Why do you want to stay fit?
Is it because you want to stay healthy? Stay fit so you can be active with your kid(s)? Get kicks out of excerting yourself physically? Once you have your motivation, you need to answer another question:
What actually makes you take the actual step to make a workout?
Is it working out with others? Time to listen to music / podcasts? Seeing actual progress? A competition once your kid gets a bit older?
These questions are important to unlock the answers within you to start, and persist, in working out. In my case, I work out because I feel good when doing my sport, and I started a workout group because I perform best when working out with others. And since I started this group, I could also dictate the location of the group (hint: its 5 minutes walk from my place, thus saving precious minutes). Since I am responsible for coaching the group, I can’t back out days when I’m not in a mood since people count on me.
You could also make an agreement with your partner to take two mornings every week for working out, and do that on a feasting belly (remember warming up!). Or do a HIIT routine during lunch break, there’s plenty material on youtube for that (search for intense 20 minute HIIT). Or, like others suggested, you could do physical workout from home - Arnold Schwarzenegger make an excellent post on Reddit on a routine suggestion for that.
I hope you’ll find time and inspiration for keeping your physical activity going!
A bit in line with what others said, find a way to take turns with your partner. Not only you will find the time to workout or whatever, but also you should not be sentenced to suffer the full frustration together. It is not necessary and doesn't help anyone. Eventually things may grow stale and you can end up in a cabin fever scenario. Find small windows of time for each one to do other things too, it will help you maintain your mental health.