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What is a sub/community that you wish existed (actively) on Lemmy?

Maybe there are others like you and we can actually get it running, or maybe to already exists but you just don't know!

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[–] truite@jlai.lu 1 points 8 hours ago

VultureCulture and BoneCollecting, because I love bones

[–] TimewornTraveler@lemm.ee 1 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

chess, linguistics, my country, my profession. Last two aren't even worth clarifying

[–] stelelor@lemmy.ca 1 points 17 hours ago

Communities for identifying random stuff! Rocks, plants, bugs, fossils, that weird thingy in your grandma's kitchen... I love lurking on them because I learn to notice more in my day-to-day life. The downside is that they need more active moderation to weed out wrong or unhelpful comments.

And on a related note, communities for admiring natural stuff, à la mineralporn.

[–] Ribbons@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 22 hours ago

A nudist/naturist sub would be really nice, been missing out on events lately so at least chatting about it would help shake the feeling of isolation.

Also, a space for plural systems would be super appreciated. We wouldn't really know what to say in it but it's really cool meeting other systems and learning about them.

-Finn (fae/she)

[–] ptc075@lemmy.zip 5 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Model railroading. Even on Reddit those subs weren't super active, but they at least existed.

Magic the Gathering. There's actually 3 here already, but somehow none of them really scratch the itch to just talk about deckbuilding. And again, the 3 that are here are fairly quiet. Just doesn't seem to be the critical mass needed.

DankChristianMemes. Was just fantastic. Perhaps the best 'neutral' ground I ever saw for Christians & Atheists to laugh at themselves & each other.

[–] Tywele@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 8 hours ago

I would love some more active Magic The Gathering communities as well. I was pretty disappointed seeing how quiet they are.

[–] TrippaSnippa@lemm.ee 1 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago)

DankChristianMemes. Was just fantastic. Perhaps the best 'neutral' ground I ever saw for Christians & Atheists to laugh at themselves & each other.

!dankchristianmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone

It's a bit quiet though

[–] Korrok@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 day ago

I'd love if the Dead by Daylight community was more active here

[–] suzie_t@aussie.zone 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Parent/Trying for pregnancy/pregnancy.

I found the pregnancy conversations on Reddit (while I was on Reddit is fun) to be much less toxic than on those discussion forums on pregnancy apps.

[–] klemptor@startrek.website 20 points 1 day ago (2 children)

More women-oriented communities would be great. Skincare, makeup, women's fitness, female health, nail polish, aging. I'd love that.

[–] britkatbar@lemm.ee 3 points 1 day ago

Yes! Or fiber/needle arts! Im struggling to quit reddit because theres like 6 crochet posts over here T_T

[–] El_Scapacabra@lemmings.world 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

R/raisedbynarcissists for sure.

[–] LilaOrchideen@feddit.org 4 points 1 day ago

modernquilts / modernquilting, I used to look in that R and ppl shared progress pictures and finished modern quilts. Was a great source of inspiration. #modernquilts on fedi/pixelfed is quite empty unfortunately

[–] MordercaSkurwysyn@lemm.ee 4 points 1 day ago

I miss national and regional meme communities such as 2visegrad4u. Cultural and historical context makes the memes flow much better.

[–] Psythik@lemm.ee 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

A community for the car I own, no matter what it is. (With thousands of active members, of course.)

[–] Blaze@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 22 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Psythik@lemm.ee 1 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

No what I mean is specific communities for specific cars. A community for 350Z owners. A community for S2000 owners, a community for Toyota 4Runner owners, etc.

[–] Blaze@sopuli.xyz 3 points 21 hours ago

People there post about their specific cars and get some answers. No need for separate communities until the activity grows

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[–] Katrisia@lemm.ee 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Communities for news, papers, and general conversation around humanities and social sciences. Communities for underground music (e.g., goth music).

[–] Microw@lemm.ee 2 points 12 hours ago

Mander.xyz has quite a few communities on sciences, like !science@mander.xyz or !archaeology@mander.xyz or other more focused ones.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 9 points 1 day ago

All of the individual games I play and not just the general "gaming" subs. Plenty of video game enthusiasts on Lemmy; not enough to geek out over specific games. Or at least... Not the ones I play.

[–] wildncrazyguy138@fedia.io 21 points 2 days ago (2 children)
[–] TimewornTraveler@lemm.ee 1 points 8 hours ago

when lemmy started they said they couldn't come here because they feared associating with MLs would compromise their unbiased ideal. I wonder how that's working out for them

[–] ocean@lemmy.selfhostcat.com 7 points 2 days ago (3 children)

It exists but 100% not in the same form

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[–] Sauvandu60@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I want lostmedia and unsolvermysteries communities to exist and be more active.

[–] Microw@lemm.ee 3 points 1 day ago

Ah I'd love for unresolvedmysteries to exist in an active form!

[–] Matombo@feddit.org 1 points 1 day ago

Middle Earth Strategy Battle Game

[–] formulaBonk@lemm.ee 12 points 2 days ago (5 children)

Actually active formuladank community

[–] Microw@lemm.ee 5 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I really should visit !formuladank@lemmy.world more actively, most of the time the posts in there dont even show up on my feeds I think

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[–] Kertyna@feddit.nl 9 points 2 days ago

SpeedofLobster! A good lobster always cracked me up.

[–] Shimitar@downonthestreet.eu 7 points 2 days ago (2 children)
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[–] HubertManne@moist.catsweat.com 5 points 1 day ago (7 children)

unfortunately the things I would most like are things I don't currently participate in that I greedly would love to be in the loop about. so pathfinder, star trek online, and champions online.

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[–] shittydwarf@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Reddit had a few really good and active lifting communities. There were interesting program reviews, sometimes everyone would run super squats together and report on the various effects of drinking a gallon of whole milk per day on the digestive tract. And I could help others join in and start lifting themselves into their best selves, since not many people in my real life circle are interested

[–] craig9@lemm.ee 2 points 1 day ago

Yeah this - this would be really great.

[–] Microw@lemm.ee 5 points 1 day ago

Maybe at !fitness@lemmy.world ? I see there is some activity in there

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