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As a 6'2 man the clothes I find which are right for my height are often very loose on me. And if I worry about the waist I look like a kid who grew a lot in the past 2 months and everything is too short for me.

Its not entirely universal, some stores are better than others. And I wear a lot of loose casual t-shirts so thats fine too. But finding dress shirts means some places work, some don't.

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[–] Fleppensteijn@feddit.nl 11 points 6 days ago

It's hard for men. Big stores that just squeeze in a small section in the back for men. Trying 3 different items: one's too big, one's too tight, but they're all the same size.

[–] Soapbox1858@lemm.ee 10 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (2 children)

I feel you. I'm 6'4" and the biggest hurdle is pants and shirt length. Unless they have tall sizes all shirts become halter tops if I even slightly raise my arms.

Pants are a pain in the ass too because I need at least 34" length for them to not be capris on me. Most companies just make all their pants 32".

There is a reason 90% of my clothing has come from Eddie Bauer for the last 15 years. I'm not particularly brand loyal. They just make clothes that fit me, and most companies don't.

[–] tunetardis@lemmy.ca 8 points 6 days ago

I'm 6’2" and have a fairly long torso compared to leg length. So I'm ok on pants but shirts can be a problem. I have noticed that with T-shirts, the difference between XL and XXL is all in the width and not length. This is not helpful.

I've heard great things about that one company Jeff Goldblum recommends.

[–] SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 9 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I have a body that no clothes will fit. A very dramatic hourglass shape. If I see something cute, it definitely will not fit me.

Nothing. Fucking. Fits.

The worst part is the bras. The fucking bras!!! Why are US bra sizes so fucked?? I literally only wear ill-fitting sports bras now!!! Otherwise my tits are squeezed or wire stabs me or every other pain.

I also have stupid sensitive skin & hypohydrosis, so rashes & heat exhaustion are things I need to think about when getting dressed.

[–] MuffinHeeler@aussie.zone 1 points 5 days ago

I can see only 2 arguments for learning to sew. This and being able to add or enlarge pockets

[–] saigot@lemmy.ca 8 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I have an unusually wide neck. Shirts, especially dress shirts won't fit both my neck and my arm length without tailoring. NGL not having to wear dress clothes was a a part of why I choose to do a computer science major and not a regular math major.

"So why aren't you going for a math major, we thought you had great potential"

"My neck's too wide"

Shoes. They might fit in the store, they might fit at home when I walk around with them for 5-10 minutes, but once I take them outside and they get dirty, suddenly it hurts everywhere.

[–] KaRunChiy@fedia.io 7 points 6 days ago (2 children)

I've got a fat ass and thighs so all my bottoms are 2xl while my tops are just L. Makes it almost impossible to get a dress that fits comfortably and as soon as you enter potientialy fitting territory the price magically doubles

Well atleast you have the dream physique as compensation.

[–] Zetta@mander.xyz 1 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Not to be rude but if the clothing is almost double the fabric a cost increase is reasonable. Although double might be a bit too much since fabric really isn't the main cost of clothing.

[–] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 6 days ago

Sizing and needing to calculate.
Luckily I found a shop (online) that is nice to wear and has no bs sizing.
And it shows the real employees wearing the stuff.

[–] scytale@lemm.ee 6 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I'm an Asian size Medium. American sizing puts me in an awkward middle of S and M. US Small fits best on my shoulders and arms, but the torso is too tight. On the other hand, US Medium fits well on my torso, but the shoulders are too wide and the sleeves too large.

[–] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 6 days ago

Same here as a European. Small shoulders but medium torso. Luckily it's not too bad.

[–] Kraven_the_Hunter@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 5 days ago (1 children)

For me it's that everything today is made out of some flavor of shitty plastic. Call ot whatever you want - "Active Wear", "Cool Breeze", "Dry Tech" - it's polyester, it feels terrible, and amps my BO up to 11 even if I'm just sitting still.

[–] Analog@lemmy.ml 2 points 5 days ago (1 children)

lol sorry about that. Polyester definitely doesn’t have that effect on me and unlike cotton, 100% polyester is pretty much unaffected by wash + dry cycles.

Cotton wears out stupidly quick in comparison.

So when buying off I’m interested i don’t even check sizes, I go straight for material. If it’s less than 70% polyester I won’t even consider buying it.

The apology is because stores do seem to be shifting towards folks like me. I love it.

[–] weew@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 days ago

Yup. Polyester feels way better on my skin than cotton, especially if I sweat at all. Also easier to maintain. I won't buy anything cotton these days.

[–] porkchop@midwest.social 5 points 5 days ago

Look in your area for a shop that does ready-to-wear clothing alterations. Sometimes dry cleaners will offer those services. Altering a dress shirt to fit you better is a relatively inexpensive service and then you don't have to worry about this anymore. As a 6' tall woman, this is literally one of the reasons I learned to sew.

[–] tunetardis@lemmy.ca 5 points 6 days ago (2 children)

I have a big head and have trouble with hats. Particularly ball caps. They are supposed to be one-size-fits-all, but apparently, I am an exception to this. Even at the widest possible setting, they are too tight.

[–] Tolookah@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I have that problem with glasses. 56-17-140 glasses seem to fit well enough right now. But the options are limited.

[–] tunetardis@lemmy.ca 2 points 6 days ago

Yeah, I usually buy cheap drug store readers and break them regularly. Even the ones with spring hinges can't seem to cope with my head size. I should probably go get proper fitted glasses, but I also misplace them all the time and would worry about spending the big bucks on something I'd lose in a week.

Yep yep yep. I can find some but even they look weird on me since I'm loosening up to as much as I can

Paying of course.

[–] SteposVenzny 4 points 6 days ago

Everything except pants. My legs are apparently within the bounds of normality but my head, hands, feet, and spine are simply too big.

You wouldn’t think being six feet tall would be such a hindrance to shopping. It’s not big enough to stand out in a crowd, so why is it so big as to be incompatible with mass production?

[–] MacroCyclo@lemmy.ca 2 points 5 days ago

I fount some shirts that fit "tall" and they are fantastic!

[–] SplashJackson@lemmy.ca 2 points 5 days ago

Getting kicked out of occupied change rooms. Like, I thought sharing was caring

[–] eldavi@lemmy.ml 4 points 6 days ago

my chest is the widest part of my body and it requires me to buy tops that are larger than my size and almost impossible to find.

getting them online too doesn't help because the measurements are never correct.

[–] Sundial@lemm.ee 4 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

Pants. I have thicker thighs, especially when compared to my waist size. I find a lot of pants are pretty tight on me because of this. I've started going for the more athletic brands as a result.

[–] SnokenKeekaGuard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Oh I had this issue back when I was 15 or so too.

[–] Sundial@lemm.ee 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Twice as big a problem then

[–] deadcatbounce@reddthat.com 4 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Deciding if I look a dick in the clothes I am trying on, or whether I really really look a dick in the clothes I'm trying on.

The one real advantage in going clothes shopping with a wife or girlfriend, for stuff for oneself.

[–] 1984@lemmy.today 3 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

We have excellent online stores like Zalando that have changed my life. I order, clothes are usually delivered the next day, and returning is as easy as putting it back into the same box and driving to the postal office again. Money back within a few days.

They have perfected the clothes shopping experience for men. No more going to awkward physical shops.

My size is known by the shop, and I can order lots of variations of the same clothes, different sizes, just to find the perfect one that really fits me.

[–] Zetta@mander.xyz 2 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

I fucking hate cloths shoping, buying cloths is the most annoying part. I actually just bought new cloths, I haven't purchased new clotheing in many many years and more than half of my current shirts have numerous holes around the arm/neck areas. I think the holes add character but I feel like I look homeless and unkept. Not that I care but I feel bad for my partner, so I bought new cloths.

I keep those as the indoor shirts

[–] nieceandtows@programming.dev 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)
[–] SnokenKeekaGuard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Those are nice? Or is it the paranoia?

They for whatever reason always make me look ugly and out of shape.