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I'd say I'm hovering around the 60% mark.

I don't answer calls from numbers I don't recognise, unless it identifies someone I'm expecting a call from with the "maybe" thing. I don't use my phone for work (often). I don't call people to catch up, I'd rather IM. My mother or my best friend call and I ignore them more often than I probably should.

But really I just don't like talking on the phone that much.

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[–] tobogganablaze@lemmus.org 26 points 2 months ago

Close to 100% for known contacts.

Very close to 0% for unknown numbers.

[–] GreyShuck@feddit.uk 10 points 2 months ago

Basically all of them.

A quick skim shows me that the only people who have called me this so far this year are:

  • Doctor
  • Dentist
  • Sister
  • Wife
  • Close friend

I expect that this would be much the same for last year too.

I have no reason not to speak to any of these.

[–] NomenCumLitteris@lemmy.ml 9 points 2 months ago

Personal: 0% unless it is a call with a planned time.

Work: 0% unless it is an in-house number of my organization. Communication can occur via email, please and thank you.

[–] Coskii@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I pick up every call I'm aware of. Scammers, phishers, polls, and everything else. I love messing with people, and good luck with getting accurate poll results, I have a dice rolling app I use to answer the questions.

It's even on a schedule for me now. The 'TV company' scam calls around 5pm to try me out, polling places seem to be weekend exclusives, and rarely I'll get a noonish jingle from some other random organization.

About 40% of the scam calls automatically disconnect after 8 seconds, and the rest I get to play with.

[–] olicvb@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Careful some calls might just be to collect your voice data for cloning. They'd call, record, and use your voice for malicious purposes like asking your relatives for money

[–] Coskii@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 months ago

I don't think my early 20's radio host voice will be of much use to them.

[–] MadBob@feddit.nl 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Have you tried explaining in your native language that you don't speak that language? They love it.

[–] Coskii@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 months ago

Not yet, but I can do that later.

[–] Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 4 points 2 months ago

100% during work, 50% offwork depend on who they are. Tbh i wish i could not answer any phone call except friends and families.

[–] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 months ago
[–] oxjox@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

100%. I don't get any marketing or robocalls so it's either family, someone from work, or someone from an appointment or delivery I have. At this point, I much rather speak with someone on the phone than sit around and text back and forth.

[–] reallyzen@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 months ago

I have an app that blocks scam/spam so irl I answer 100% but technically I only pickup 50%

[–] Corno@lemm.ee 3 points 2 months ago

Maybe around half of them. I don't answer calls if they're from numbers that aren't familiar to me, as they could very well be robocalls/scammers.

[–] LillyPip@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 months ago

Family/close friends/doctors: 95% (I only don’t if I’m in the toilet, at the doctor, or etc).

Unknown/unsolicited: 0%. If it’s important, leave a message or fuck right off.

Nearly 98% of my calls come from that last group, though, so basically never.

[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 2 months ago
[–] trk@aussie.zone 2 points 2 months ago

Pretty much never. Direct family only really.

Talking is for IRL, or actually urgent things. Everything else is a message or email.

Don't ring me to discuss an email.

[–] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 months ago

0.1%

I wish I could charge people $100 an hour to speak to me over the phone.

[–] RandomVideos@programming.dev 2 points 2 months ago

Almost all of the ones i dont miss

I also miss most of them so its not a high rate

[–] Pixel@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

100%. I learnt the numbers 0-9 in Mandarin Chinese and I know how to cuss in Chinese to Chinese robocall scammers.

I also have a social sciences research background so I have no disincentive or misguided desire to respond with wrong data to polls either.

[–] Crotaro 1 points 2 months ago

I also answer all calls I get and (usually) call back if they missed me. I actively gave my number to one or two research groups for polls. They call maybe twice per year, so it's alright.

As for scammers, maybe 10% of calls are of that sort and so far I enjoy messing with them when they call.

[–] potentiallynotfelix@lemdro.id 2 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

30%, my new mexico number gets a lot of spammers which just don't get blocked.

Edit: I pretty much only pick up calls that I know or from a different state.

[–] POTOOOOOOOO@reddthat.com 2 points 2 months ago

If it's a number I don't know and it's a scam. I always try to pick up and insult their parents for not raising them right.

[–] EABOD25@lemm.ee 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Probably 20-30%. I don't answer calls from different area codes than mine

[–] chahk 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I'm in the opposite camp - never answer calls from area codes same as mine. Scammers now target numbers with same area code as the one they're spoofing. If also the first 3 digits after the area code match too, that's an even higher chance of a scam.

[–] EABOD25@lemm.ee 1 points 2 months ago

I don't have the same area code as the area I live in so it's pretty simple to weed spam calls out

[–] ClassifiedPancake@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

99%. I just don't answer Anonymous calls because nothing good comes from that.

But there was a time where I could not even answer unknown numbers because I was in some kind of spam database and got 5-10 calls a day. It went on for weeks and they changed the number every time. Simply hitting decline didn't stop it. I ended up setting my phone to block all calls not in my contact list (while still looking into my caller list occasionally) and a few weeks later it stopped. Now I became more trustful again.

I don't get calls often anyways.

[–] FergleFFergleson@infosec.pub 1 points 2 months ago

Basically none at this point. Unless it's recognized as coming from one of the handful of people in my address book, or occasionally if I'm expecting a call (like from a doctor or the mechanic or something). But otherwise there's no point. No one that would contact me or that I would want to contact me would use the phone - they would text, IM, email, etc. The odds of a phone call being junk or a scam is far too high to bother with.

I don't have mine on me except when traveling and I easily don't get to it before voicemail. Wish we had configuration on how many rings before voice mail or forwarding or such. So I miss a lot but a fair amount I will call right back. I will answer some I don't recognize but im in a passive job search. Preference wise its talk in person, then phone, then email, and I do my chat via email.

[–] InputZero@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 months ago

All of them, but I'm also unemployed and looking for work. I can't let me not answering my phone to be the reason I get passed over for a job. More often than not it's a spam call but I can't afford to let an opportunity for an interview go. It sucks, before this I would barely answer the phone for known contacts. If it can be said on the phone it can be said in text, in far fewer words too.

[–] gerryflap@feddit.nl 1 points 2 months ago

All those with a known number attached (or when I'm expecting an unknown call). Probably 70-80%. But I rarely call, maybe like once or twice a month

[–] interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 months ago

100β„… which is zero in the last 30 days

[–] chottomatte@lemdro.id 1 points 2 months ago

All of them unless I'm asleep while putting my phone on silent mode , or listening to the lecture , or I didn't hear the ringtone