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Hello y'all. I am taking a break in the midst of my workout and thought to write this post. I recently increased the weight of the two dumbbells I'm using, so now both of them are 6kg.

I definitely notice the difference from 5kg each, and even though I can't finish all of my workouts because of exhaustion, I don't want to beat myself up too much over it. I'm getting stronger each time I workout, and eventually I'll be able to finish them all fully.

Anyway, I've been strength training for a few weeks now and I notice a difference. Maybe it's delusion or wishful thinking, but I like my body better now, I feel stronger and more energetic. I've been thinking about picking up boxing as well, and my dad just ordered one of those big boxing sacs that you punch (like you see frustrated husbands doing in shows), so that's fun.

Y'all got any exercise stories to share or advice for beginners like myself? Any other women in here who strength train? Would be fun to hear from y'all, no matter who you are. (: Cheers!

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[–] tuckerm@supermeter.social 12 points 2 months ago

Congratulations! I want to point out that going from 5 to 6 kilograms is, in fact, a huge jump. That is 20% more than what you were doing before, which is literally huge. That is a big accomplishment -- and also, you won't have to jump by that much in the future.

This is an unfortunate paradox for people at the beginning of their workout careers: the smaller weights are harder to move up in, because each step up is actually a pretty large percentage increase.

going from 5 to 6 is 20% more going from 6 to 7 is 16.7% more going from 7 to 8 is 14% more and so on

So eventually the next weight will only be like 10% more than the previous weight, and that's a much more reasonable amount to increase by. If each new dumbbell set feels way harder than before, just know that the next step up will be easier than the last one you just did.

[–] zcd@lemmy.ca 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Congrats on the progress, keep it up! I started lifting weights for the first time during Covid and since then I've turned into that annoying person who won't stop talking about the benefits to anyone who will listen. Before long people will start to notice, and you'll be asked to lift and carry heavy crap

[–] clark@midwest.social 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Before long people will start to notice, and you'll be asked to lift and carry heavy crap

I hope so! Nothing would be more validating honestly. Sometimes when I go grocery shopping with my parents they'll ask me "is the grocery bag too heavy? You want help?", like, I'm the one practising with 12kg in my hands haha. I get why they ask though, they mean well.

[–] zcd@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 months ago

Picking up heavy crap is our hobby now so its nice to be asked :D

[–] safesyrup@lemmy.hogru.ch 3 points 2 months ago

I‘m a guy but i started doing pullups some weeks ago. At first i was able to do one clean and then an ugly one and now am able to do 5-6 clean ones and one ungly one. Pretty cool how fast you are able to progress. I noticed it improved my posture as well, which i like :)

[–] Truffle@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Me! I did it for years while in my twenties, then stopped because of injury, bad form and other circumnstances. Now I've picked it up again but through a personal trainer. My goal is long term mobility and independence, not so much muscle growing so I strength train 3 times a week, pilates or barré 2 times a week and yoga daily to stretch and help my mental health. I love being able to do pushups and other exercises that challenge me and feeling stronger and stronger everyday. Good for you for listening to your body and what it needs, no need to risk injury to kick ass IMO.

[–] clark@midwest.social 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Honestly I yearn for the day I'm able to do a pushup! Do you know of any exercises that can help me reach that goal? I don't know how effective "half pushups" are (when you balance on your knees instead of your toes).

I'm glad you prioritise your mental health as well. I don't know about you, but personally I can feel bad sometimes for not progressing as fast as I want to. With time, I learn to take things slow and appreciate slow but genuine results.

[–] Truffle@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Wall pushups helped me a ton at the beginning so I could learn proper hand/arm placement, then that evolved to knee pushups like the ones you describe, then full pushups and now yoga ball pushups so my body and my mind keep getting challenges because I get bored very easy and lose interest at an alarmig rate. Slow is your friend! At least it is for me. Rushing a workout or setting unrealistic goals are killjoys that I don't need at this point.

[–] jet@hackertalks.com 2 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

I recently started my health improvement journey too. First swimming, then a mixed strength training swimming program.

I think the key is anything you can sustainably do long-term has the biggest life improving dividends.

and even though I can't finish all of my workouts because of exhaustion

You are completing your workouts, if you're putting your body to the point where you've reached exhaustion, or technical form failure, you have created the right stimulus for your body to improve and adapt. That's a success

You didn't mention anything about your diet, I just hope you're taking enough protein, so that you're maintaining and enabling your body improvements.

I found having an exercise buddy has been a great help in staying consistent

[–] clark@midwest.social 2 points 2 months ago

I remember talking to a (now ex)friend years ago about exercising together because I only really dared go to the gym if I wasn't alone. Honestly, at this point I don't think a gym is necessary for me, and sharing my progress/hearing how others are doing on the fediverse is kind of like having an exercise buddy anyway.

Thanks for your kind words. (:

[–] craig9@lemm.ee 1 points 2 months ago

Related - are there any active lifting communities on Lemmy? I think I signed up to a couple a while back but haven't seen a single post. Looking at these comments, it looks like we have a number of people interested in the topic.