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[–] unexposedhazard@discuss.tchncs.de 64 points 4 months ago

I would if i had curves like dat. With my flat ass, that just looks like shit.

[–] eldavi@lemmy.ml 28 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

when i was very young, men would wear booty shorts and belly shirts like some women do now; publicly shirtless men was also more common; and, as an adult, i wish i could have appreciated it more than i did at the time.

i hate that prudery has become so en vogue these days with the young.

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 25 points 4 months ago (7 children)

how do you keep it from dangling out the leg?

[–] match@pawb.social 16 points 4 months ago

ooh fancy pants bigger than 2" dick mcgee over here

[–] c0smokram3r@midwest.social 16 points 4 months ago (1 children)
[–] eldavi@lemmy.ml 5 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

SUPER supportive undies work too if you don't want to go down that drag-queen-esque route.

men usually wore whitey tighties & jockstraps back in the day when booty shorts were normal for men and those are great at keeping all the bits where you want them to stay put.

[–] lud@lemm.ee 11 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

Boxer briefs, trunks, briefs, thong, or jockstrap.

Pretty much any underwear except for boxer shorts.

[–] NakariLexfortaine@lemm.ee 10 points 4 months ago

Tucking, or if that's uncomfortable, some people have success with underwear that's just a size down from their regular.

[–] kittenzrulz123@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 4 months ago

Bottom surgery, just become Transfem.

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[–] EmptySlime@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 4 months ago (1 children)

My dysphoria would never allow me to wear something like that. I can't stand anything that reminds me that I'm built like a fridge and look like I'm cosplaying a Sasquatch with alopecia.

[–] Slovene@feddit.nl 3 points 4 months ago (2 children)

I think that's dysmorphia?

[–] el_abuelo@lemmy.ml 3 points 4 months ago

Both seem to work.

[–] EmptySlime@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 4 months ago

I personally don't think so. It's more a gender thing than a body looks thing. I'm nonbinary but I haven't been able to pursue transition for health reasons. So I still look like a cis male. I'm 6'2" tall, my shoulders are wide enough that I legitimately have to walk sideways through some doors to keep from shoulder checking a wall. I'm just large and don't like being reminded that most everyone that sees me just sees a man.

[–] Twitches@lemm.ee 14 points 4 months ago (3 children)

I just want to know why men can't have stretchy comfy pants like women do.

[–] DontMakeMoreBabies@lemm.ee 14 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I'd probably end up inadvertently offending somone? Tight pants and external genitalia are an interesting combination.

[–] tweeks@feddit.nl 11 points 4 months ago (2 children)

While tight shirts and external secondary sex distinctions are mostly not an issue.

[–] DontMakeMoreBabies@lemm.ee 3 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

I mean society seems to think so? Frankly also I just typically get uncomfortable with people peeking down at my crotch. I don't generally wear tight pants for that reason because I'm not looking for that kind of attention.

[–] Sas 1 points 4 months ago (1 children)

It's just that the focus goes a lot more to nipples. If you wear a tight shirt with external secondaries you better wear a bra or be prepared to get started on or even get shit from people.

[–] tweeks@feddit.nl 2 points 4 months ago

Yeah, we live in a weird world based around absurd prudish values. I do believe it's increasingly less frowned upon in some European countries, especially Denmark in my experience.

[–] TwinTusks@bitforged.space 3 points 4 months ago

I am fat, and I dislike tight clothing.

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[–] Omega_Jimes@lemmy.ca 13 points 4 months ago

No one wants my fatty hairy thighs peaking out from shorts like that.

[–] PotatoesFall@discuss.tchncs.de 12 points 4 months ago

How about my 2" covers you inseam?

sorry

[–] ImplyingImplications@lemmy.ca 9 points 4 months ago
[–] ValenThyme@reddthat.com 9 points 4 months ago

https://a.co/d/09ZVcEdq the uratot 'store' has no https so sorry for the amazon link

[–] OldWoodFrame@lemm.ee 6 points 4 months ago

There's a clip somewhere of a gay guy looking direct to camera saying with that basically-clapping-between-words flamboyant energy:

"Straight men! The women you want to sleep with, want to see your thighs!"

I can never find it so the quote might not be perfect but it really stuck with me. I joked about it to my SO and she gave one of those moany approval noises meaning like "so true" so I guess the man was right.