Learning that my spouse prefers Lego over flowers was an important moment in my marriage.
I get them presents to celebrate big milestones in our shared life goals, and I write them letters (with paper and pen and all that) on anniversaries.
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I am a fan of both Legos and flowers and they have a botanicals series that's the best of both.
Yeah. Lego botanicals are so good!
Probably every other time either of us are in the grocery store. Might be flowers for either of us, might be a food the other likes, might be something odd to try together.
multiple times a week
I get my wife flowers about once a month
My spouse and I have talked about love languages, and we agree gift-giving is our least favorite. So, we don't do flowers often. In fact, I bring her flowers in Animal Crossing more often than in real life, which is more of an act of service.
If there was any to give any to, probably once per equinox/solstice.
I offered a rose to my SO last week as is the tradition in Catalunya for Sant Jordi (see !yurop@lemm.ee for more details).
We also try do to a date night (we go out and try to get out of our routine) once a week