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Does anyone else find absolute silence difficult to deal with? In particular difficult to sleep in complete silence?

I think it started from a young age, being obsessed with music. Falling asleep with music.

As an adult, I still struggle with this and need some form of audio to drift off, be it music or something else.

More recently, I find stand-up comedy works best - it's light-hearted and doesn't require too much thought.

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[–] Squirrel@thelemmy.club 2 points 1 year ago

I need a fan or white noise. Silence is just "eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee" until I fall asleep.

[–] chepox@sopuli.xyz 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Tinnitus fucking sucks. I hate silence

[–] Xylight@lemmy.xylight.dev 1 points 1 year ago

I think I have a strange version of tinnitus where instead of ringing I'll feel pulses as vibrations in my ear, it syncs with my heartbeat.

[–] theneverfox@pawb.social 1 points 1 year ago

Silence isn't a thing.

Sound of leaves rustling, the ocean, or even gentle wind? I sleep, no problem

A house quietly creaking and my blood flowing?

I've put on music or Netflix since childhood

[–] watson387@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 year ago

I have tinnitus, so absolute silence is never enjoyable for me. Music works extremely well; I fall asleep with the tv on.

[–] atlasraven31@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

I sleep with a fan. Luckily hotel A/C's have a constant fan function.

[–] Spaaarkz@reddthat.com 1 points 1 year ago

A plus one for the white noise machine. Game changer.

[–] linuxduck@nerdly.dev 1 points 1 year ago

I have tinnitus. Had it my whole life. I live with a fan running in every room except the kitchen and bathroom. They are on 24/7 365. The silence literally makes my head feel like it's about to pop

[–] teawrecks@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 year ago

Most people I know sleep with a fan on for this reason. Really common, yeah.

[–] snor10@lemm.ee 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I must have earplugs and an eyemask to sleep. Always wanted pitch black and complete silence since I was a child.

My wife is the same.

[–] Blizzard@lemmy.zip 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Try weed. Not right before sleep but a bit earlier, while watching those stand-ups for example.

[–] LachlanUnchained@lemmyunchained.net 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Yeh. It’s amazing. I have a medical license for it. But sometimes I want to not sleep haha. More about the silence being frightening. Rather than not being able to sleep. Haha.

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