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[โ€“] wallmenis@lemmy.one 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (4 children)

They are not mature enough adults though...

Edit: What I mean is that we should talk to them like they are adults so that adulthood sets in more smoothly. I do not think they should have the same rights as consent and stuff like that. They should learn about this stuff but not be able to do them and participate since they are not mature enough to make these descisions. For example, they can take sex ed classes but not consent to actual sex.

[โ€“] TealDragon@lemdit.com 6 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Everybody has tons of opinions on what they are mature enough for or not mature enough for

but as a matter of simple fact, they are adults.

[โ€“] wallmenis@lemmy.one 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

I am scared as to how consent is being implied here... I don't think they have the life experience and maturity to consent to sex and maybe drinking alcohol.

[โ€“] TealDragon@lemdit.com 7 points 2 years ago

If you lock people out of adult society they gain no life experience.

Strictly keeping youth out of bars because they have no "life experience" means they'll never get the "life experience" you think they need to be considered adults and allowed into bars. It's a system for maintaining child status permanently.

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