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Another reason to leave Reddit: I forgot how hostile it can be (self.chat)

submitted 2 years ago by xray to c/chat

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I've mostly left reddit and switched to beehaw, but I posted on somewhat of a niche tech-related subreddit today since there really isn't a community for that here yet. And wow, I got instantly downvoted twice and the first comment response was rude and hostile. All I posted was a feature suggestion for software that I thought would be useful and that a good amount of people would like based on other feedback I've heard. This is not the sort of topic that should be controversial or aggravating, and it wasn't like I made an ignorant post suggesting a feature that already existed or otherwise wasn't well researched.

This type of instantly hostile response has happened numerous times on reddit for various different topics, but I just haven't posted for a while, so I forgot just how shitty it can feel. It makes me really appreciate how friendly and respectful the community is here on Beehaw and on Mastodon. People seem to have good faith in one another similar to how the internet used to be in the old days.

Have you had similar experiences with Reddit and similarly opposite experiences here on Beehaw/Lemmy?

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[–] BendyBee 1 points 2 years ago

Hmmm well this is one area that Reddit SHOULD be good at.

My experience was more with Linux, where people will go to Reddit not having a clue how to request help, and not bothering to join their distribution forum.

Sometimes the best answer is simply a link - like RTFM

Effort goes into answering repeated questions, writing guides etc.

So people expecting too much to be done for them can be slightly wearing... sometimes the best solution is actually for people requesting the help to learn to entice people to help you rather than expect it as if it's their job.

r/firefoxCSS was a good example of this - where people were keen to solve your problems.