My old person trait is that I think 'ghosting' is completely unacceptable and you owe the other person a face-to-face conversation.
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These aren't "old person traits". It's common sense.
Using the term "common-sense" in reference to specific, complex preferences is definitely an old person trait.
Me: haha
Me five seconds later: oh
that you owe people something? how is that common sense?
Yea, you owe people common courtesy.
no you dont. you dont owe people jack shit.
a relationship is a voluntary situation that can be interrupted at any time for any reason. Theres a reason usually these ghosting winers have incel vibes...
Except if you're standing next to me in the supermarket. Or at the bus stop. Or sitting near me in a restaurant. Or at the doctors office and so on. And in all of these situations, I expect common courtesy from you. Or I consider you as an asshole.
since we are talking about ghosting and not a random interaction id say you are off topic.