My comment in the selfhosted community a few weeks ago is still pretty much up to date.

I have added a new Lemmy instance in the cloud I am planning to host a project I am building on, and planka in my homelab as a todo list and poor man's IPAM sort of tool. I have also shut down the Minecraft server I was running for a friend as they decided to move it to "Worlds" or something.

I have also grown a little more confident in gluster. I still think there is a better solution possible, but I haven't seen it out there, and am not sure any such juice would be worth the squeeze.

Most of it has been pretty hands-off to deal with. The storage has been the thing I have poured most of my time into. Trying to achieve multi-server and multi-disk fault tolerance, incremental capacity scalability at a disk and server level, and not being stuck with massive overhead (e.g. 3x replication) seems like mostly a pipedream at this point...

In various clouds

• Email - Docker Mail Server (Postfix, Dovecot, Rspamd, etc.)
• Reverse Proxy cluster - frp
  • This is actually pretty neat. It is basically acting as a self-hosted ngrok, letting me expose all the stuff in my homelab without having to put my home IP out there.
• External Monitoring - Uptime Kuma
• Random sites via cloudflare workers/R2

In my homelab

Infrastructure

• DNS - PiHole fronting local Unbound resolvers
• Load Balancing/Routing - Traefik
• Storage - Gluster exposed via Samba
  • I am still searching for the right solution for storage... nothing does what I want. I have been slowly writing my own, but don't have the time to get it to a point I trust it, haha.
• Custom traefik auto-config clients/server
  • Reads labels on containers and announces them to the server that traefik uses for HTTP service discovery
• Custom docker-compose nonsense
  • Basically lets me choose where to run docker-compose files in a simple and centralized way, including on multiple machines
  • Doesn't do scheduling/monitoring/etc, just manually setting "this compose should run these machines"
  • I got tired of running k8s and nomad.

Services

• Authentication - Authentik
• Media - Jellyfin
• Minecraft
• Password Manager - Vaultwarden
• PKM - DokuWiki
• SCM - Forgejo (a fork of Gitea, which itself is a fork of Gogs)
• Social Media - Lemmy
• Webmail - Snappymail
• Several random little websites
• Many little things I've written for myself

Any service that needs non-http traffic pointed at it runs local instances of the frp client to expose that port to the reverse-proxy cluster.