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Hey Folks!

I've been living abroad for over half my life in a country where tipping is not the norm. At most you would round up. 19€ bill? Here's a 20, keep this change.

Going to the US soon to visit family and the whole idea of tipping makes me nervous. It seems there's a lot of discussion about getting rid of tipping, but I don't know how much has changed in this regard.

The system seems ridiculously unfair, and that extra expense in a country where everything is already so expensive really makes a difference.

So will AITA if I don't tip? Is it really my personal responsibility to make sure my server is paid enough?

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[–] Nyefan@lemmy.ml 35 points 2 years ago (4 children)

To be as clear as possible - the minimum wage for tipped staff is $2.13/hr. That's why you have to tip.

[–] MDKAOD@lemmy.ml 22 points 2 years ago

This is deceiving though. In The US tipping is literally everywhere now.

If you are waited on, I. E. Sat at a table or served at a bar, tipping is expected. If you go to a counter and place an order and someone hands you something while you're standing there, those workers aren't making 2.13/hr.

[–] Jake_Farm@sopuli.xyz 13 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Not true, restuarants have to make up the difference in their wage if they dont make enough in tips.

[–] bdonvr@thelemmy.club 10 points 2 years ago

Yeah, legally.

In practice? Lol

[–] goGetF1@startrek.website 10 points 2 years ago (1 children)

This does depend on which state you’re in (some states don’t have a “tipped wage”), but the vast majority of service workers are not raking in the big bucks, so be generous if you can!

[–] pingveno@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Oregon has kind of a hybrid tipped wage. There's a minimum tipped wage, but if tips don't add up to at least the regular minimum wage then the establishment needs to make up the tips for the shift.

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[–] TrippyTortuga@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

A higher federal minimum wage would solve this problem. Employers are required by law to make up the difference between the base wage and the federal minimum wage ($7.25/hr) if nobody tips.

But obviously $7.25 isn't a living wage either, so any tipped employee that actually makes the federal minimum is living almost entirely on tips.

https://www.dol.gov/general/topic/wages/wagestips

[–] SilentStorms@lemmy.fmhy.ml 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

That's assuming that employers follow the law, which for restaurants is rarely the case.

[–] TrippyTortuga@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 years ago

Fair point. And this is why unions are beneficial to the working class, and also why shitty companies like Starbucks try to bust unions.