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Is my porn viewing problematic? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 3 months ago by turnerpike20@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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I'm using an app that's meant to help me stop and just to tell me when there is a problem. I don't think they got everything right but some stuff yeah their basically right. Just the fact that I view this much really is something. But is it really that problematic?

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[–] mygoodsir@lemmy.ml 7 points 3 months ago

Broke: I need more surveillance to help me stop consuming porn because of my dopamine levels

Woke: I look at nudes that were shared without extortion involved, with myself or the public, because I understand the guilt comes from participating in the violation of other people's consent and boundaries