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There will always be someone who is beating you in a metric (buying houses, having kids, promotions, pay, relationships, etc..) fixating on it will drive you mad.
Instead you should compare your current status against where you were and appreciate how you are moving forward
As for age
During university my best mate was 27 who dropped out of his final year, grabbed a random job, then went to college to get a BTEC so they could start the degree.
It was similar in my graduate intake, we had a 26 year old who had been a brickie for 5 years before getting a comp sci degree.
The first person I line managed was a junior 15 years older than me, who had a completely different career stream. They had the house, kids, had managed big teams, etc.. honestly I learnt tons from them.
This is encouraging to hear. I'm actually considering applying to a degree apprenticeship. I only found out about them recently but they seem to combine the best of both worlds