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Having discussed this IRL I have found there to be much disagreement in this area, what are your thoughts?

Clarification: This is a hypothetical so imagine it is one pill (or your preffered method of taking a medication) with no side effects.

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[โ€“] OpulentDoorstop@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

On the subject of how to word your question, perhaps this: "If you had the chance to permanently become neurotypical, would you take it?"

I personally would not since I don't see a reason too. Being NT wouldn't get rid of my problems, it would just give me different ones. I may have to work to produce facial expressions, but neurotypical people have to work to control theirs. If I'm in a situation where it would be inappropriate to laugh and something funny occurs, I can just not. I once sat quietly through a hilarious funeral. Family told me I was "serious", "respectful".

Anyway, being NT provides a "feel" for all the little rules of social interaction that I learn manually. But I'd still have to follow those rules or face the consequences of violation. I'm already autistic, may as well keep it that way.

[โ€“] BackOnMyBS@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

look at Ms/Mr Knows-When-It's-Not-Appropriate-To-Laugh over here ๐Ÿ™„ /j