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I tear up just thinking about it. In a way it was worse because she was having a (then rare) "good day" and I think we were all sort of second guessing whether she needed to go. OTOH, she went as easily as possible, with all of us there, and in our house. I found a vet who would make house calls and would come to us. They are family, but they are more. We are their guardian and their provider as well as their companion. I think it's natural, no - I think to some extent it's healthy, or at least right - to feel the way we do. But it's also healthy, for us, to know our limits and be mindful of our own mental health. hugs