I got a report on one of my posts, It was for the mods of lemmy.ml letting them know that porn was popping up on .ml. I went and checked lemmy.ml's instances and we are now in the blocked list. I know they had a number of large communities so this is just a heads up to everyone who may have been subbed to any.
So, in a comment that is now lost to time, I mentioned frustration at Lemmy not having an instance block feature.
Decided to check, and it looks like it's actively being worked on https://github.com/LemmyNet/lemmy/pull/3869 .
Doubt it'll help with defederation (since we are mostly a porn instance after all), but would be good for the common yiff fearing user.
I messaged Dessalines and proposed a feature to have them block our communities while we could keep getting their content and participating in their communities.