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[–] Halafax@kbin.social 166 points 1 year ago (3 children)

So you are saying there is a house on the market now?

[–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 1 year ago (2 children)

This has real Seinfeld vibes...

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[–] Greg@lemmy.ca 136 points 1 year ago (1 children)

On the flip side, transplant given to person who follows medical advice

[–] MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca 55 points 1 year ago (1 children)

She did several people a solid over the course of her senseless battle for the hill that she died on.

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[–] zcd@lemmy.ca 135 points 1 year ago

Step 2: find out

[–] MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca 95 points 1 year ago

She died rather than accepting a free to her, safe, and effective vaccine.

[–] sndmn@lemmy.ca 89 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

What do you mean I have to stop drinking gin if I want a liver transplant?

Patient dies because she didn't follow doctor's advice.

[–] Polar@lemmy.ca 87 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I had a double lung transplant 6 years ago. You have to be EXTREMELY compliant to even get put on the list.

So many meds and tests and shit stuff you need to follow EXACTLY, every 12 hours, every day, for the rest of your life.

If you refuse a vaccine you're never going to care for your new lungs. It's not easy.

[–] MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca 32 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Nope. That's why the courts allow transplant coordinators to require that you be vaccinated. This vaccine was so incredibly safe that it's ridiculous that she chose to die rather than getting it. I mean, literally the worst thing that could have happened to her because she got the vaccine happened to her because she didn't get the vaccine.

[–] Polar@lemmy.ca 29 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This vaccine was so incredibly safe that it's ridiculous that she chose to die rather than getting it.

Unlike the transplant meds. Pretty large increase for cancer from them.

Seems weird to refuse a COVID vaccine, but be fine swallowing a ton of meds every 12 hours that increases your risk of cancer significantly.

Obviously me and many others accept that increased risk, because like you said, the other outcome is just dying straight up.

In the end I'm glad the organ went to someone else who will respect and appreciate it.

[–] MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca 21 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (9 children)

I have a background in chemistry. Early in the pandemic when all the anti-vax nonsense was at its peak I took a look at the ingredients in the three main vaccines in Canada (A-Z, M, and P). For the most part they all included:

mRNA which we all have in our bodies all the time

4 salts of which one was table salt

4 fats of which one was cholesterol

and sugar.

That's it.

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[–] MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca 26 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Fact is, there's more people in need of transplants and simply not enough viable organs to go around.

I'm not going to fault the transplant committee for denying someone over a vaccine. Simply, why give this very finite and very precious resource to someone when they're just going to go get themselves unalived over something as dumb as a 100% preventable disease or something just because they have a brain malfunction that makes them think vaccines are bad. Especially when so many other people are literally dying without the same organs, who are more than happy to follow doctors instructions to ensure they can live a long and prosperous life with the replacement they desperately need.

It's all rather silly.

The thing that probably bothers me the most about organ transplants in general is that if cloning research and stem cell research was allowed to proceed properly, it's entirely possible that science could find a way to grow you a replacement of your own organs.... Apart from genetic problems causing organs to fail, it would almost completely eliminate the entire demand for organs. But no, some idiots don't want cloning because it upsets their imaginary friend.

On a related note, go fill out your donor card people. Even if you're one of those "nobody will want my organs" type of people, do it anyways. The transplant people will figure out if your organs are viable when you no longer need them anymore. Let them figure that shit out for you. Just check the box to be a donor and don't think about it any further.

[–] Polar@lemmy.ca 18 points 1 year ago (1 children)

On a related note, go fill out your donor card people. Even if you’re one of those “nobody will want my organs” type of people, do it anyways. The transplant people will figure out if your organs are viable when you no longer need them anymore. Let them figure that shit out for you. Just check the box to be a donor and don’t think about it any further.

and the stupid rumour about "the doctors will kill me to save 8 others" is bullshit. I am glad my donor signed. His wife said she didn't want him to, but seeing me live because of his selflessness made her reconsider, and she tells everyone to be a donor.

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[–] Jaysyn@kbin.social 73 points 1 year ago (24 children)

Better the organ saved the life of a non-moron.

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[–] avidamoeba@lemmy.ca 65 points 1 year ago (1 children)

“Taking this vaccine offends my conscience. I ought to have the choice about what goes into my body, and a lifesaving treatment cannot be denied to me because I chose not to take an experimental treatment for a condition — COVID-19 — which I do not have and which I may never have,” Lewis said in an affidavit.

I guess she died with a clear conscious. 🙄

Seriously though, taking an organ from the waitlist and then inevitably getting COVID while immunocompromised is .. not very cool.. for the next person on the waitlist.

[–] rivalary@lemmy.ca 20 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I wonder if she did die with a clear conscience considering she withdrew the money donated at her fundraiser (which I find hilarious that they have a "send prayers" button on the page) so that she could live. They said in an earlier update that they expect everyone to be fair minded and not request a refund, but people can reach out for a refund. Very manipulative. Also, she didn't leave a will and the funds are "unfortunately" locked while they figure out her estate. The whole thing is worth a read, if you don't mind puking a little in your mouth.

[–] Grimpen@lemmy.ca 19 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Ugh. $125k to get an organ transplant in the US without the vaccine. Also, the stupid tweet speculating that vaccines aren't required to donate organs. Nope, they absolutely aren't. Idiots. Imbeciles. Morons. It's absolutely infuriating that people can be so willingly ignorant.

Sure, hospitals willing and able to do organ transplants are rare, but that's because organs to transplant are exceptionally rare. Other than kidney donations, and I think liver (IIRC), all organ transplants require someone to die, and to die under pretty controlled conditions so that their organs are still in a usable condition. For every organ transplant that occurs, there are a dozen others that die waiting.

To give this woman an organ transplant is to deny someone else an organ transplant. The question is not whether she should get an organ transplant despite not taking every reasonable measure to increase the odds of that organ contributing to a longer and healthier life; but rather who else dies if she doesn't want to take every reasonable measure.

The fundamental calculus of organ donation is not everyone who needs one will get one. Who will benefit the most? This is absolutely the practical application of those philosophical paradoxes where you are asked to pick which life to save under various circumstances.

Her whole case reeks of the entitlement that oozes from the Convoy protesters. I shouldn't be inconvenienced, I shouldn't have to compromise to help others. I should get to live, screw everyone else.

I have a friend who got a lung transplant around 10 years ago. It's a little unnerving how bloodthirsty I got whenever I saw an aggressive motorcycle driver. "I hope they are an organ donor" became my new curse. I wasn't exactly wishing death upon people, but it was sobering to feel how mixed my feelings became knowing a friend was waiting for an organ donation.

The inverse of this story of this woman dying is the story of everyone who skipped past her in line. One of those organs could have been hers. I'd like to hear stories about people whose lives were saved.

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[–] Omega_Jimes@lemmy.ca 61 points 1 year ago (1 children)

They don't give organs to alcoholics who don't stop drinking either.

Good luck getting a heart of you refuse to quit eating a hamburger an hour.

Look, you have to pass a baseline level of taking care of yourself to qualify for an organ, and vaccinations are the bottom, base level first line of defense.

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[–] Templa 45 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I can't understand this. She was fine retaking the childhood vaccines but the one for COVID. What kind of misinformation led her to believe that?

[–] MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca 31 points 1 year ago (6 children)

It became a matter of political identity. Rejecting Covid, the science, the vaccine, and the reasonable public health measures became more important to them that life itself.

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[–] rentar42@kbin.social 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The usual primary talking point is that it was developed "too fast", which is of course ignoring a bunch of very important "details". But explaining why that is wrong takes multiple sentences, but shouting out the misrepresentation that pulls people in can be done in a second.

[–] VanillaGorilla@kbin.social 18 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Remember that us idiots that took the vaccination would die in about half a year? I can't remember my funeral, but I really hope it was beautiful.

Or maybe we didn't die and their bullshit was all made up and by now they could have had a chance to understand that. But that's speculative.

[–] MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca 20 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I had a discussion with an anti-reality troll on Reddit who insisted that I would be dead within a year of taking the vaccine. He actually did a RemindMe! 1 year. That was more than 2 years ago and I never heard back from him. I wonder if he died?

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[–] CapgrasDelusion@kbin.social 40 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What a bonkers hill to literally die on.

[–] MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca 20 points 1 year ago

If you make being petulant your entire identity...

[–] Grant_M@lemmy.ca 39 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Solution: Get vaccinated. (It's Postmedia, so odds are pretty good the story is exaggerated or outright fake)

[–] KairuByte@lemmy.dbzer0.com 43 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Even if it’s not fake… this is kinda how it is. You’re required to jump through so many hoops to get a transplant. One of the steps is to suppress your immune system, and not taking one of the required vaccines increases the chances of not only your death, but the waste of the organ.

[–] Grant_M@lemmy.ca 22 points 1 year ago

Agree. Vaccinations are important, especially in the case of transplants.

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[–] pingveno@kbin.social 37 points 1 year ago (3 children)

"Taking this vaccine offends my conscience. I ought to have the choice about what goes into my body, and a lifesaving treatment cannot be denied to me because I chose not to take an experimental treatment for a condition"

Hun, you're not the only person who is looking for a transplant. If you're not going to protect yourself from COVID-19, you don't get the organ. Plain and simple.

[–] MapleEngineer@lemmy.ca 37 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Yup. The courts have long held that being vaccinated can be a requirement of getting an organ transplant. Organs are hard to come by and they should go to the people who are going to listen to their doctor and do what needs to be done to keep that organ alive for a long time. If not, it should go to someone who will.

[–] StringTheory 21 points 1 year ago

If she won’t jump through that hoop, how many others will she refuse down the road?

“Taking this anti-rejection medication offends my conscience. These drugs are chemicals!”

“Getting an hour of cardio a day offends me, I should decide what activities I perform.”

“Being told to keep my BMI in the healthy range to keep my transplant healthy is offensive and is implying I’m fat.”

Transplant teams want compliant patients. Refusing a vaccine right off the bat means you are the non-compliant type who likely won’t be a success.

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[–] i-downvote-dipshits@kbin.social 19 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I'm not sure whether I take more offense to people still calling the vaccine experimental or thinking it's a treatment. Being so desperately against something without bothering to even pretend to understand what it is or why irks the shit out of me. Good riddance.

[–] Vlhacs@reddthat.com 16 points 1 year ago (2 children)

It would mean she had to admit she was wrong.

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[–] IvanOverdrive@lemm.ee 34 points 1 year ago (8 children)

Freedom isn't freedom from consequences

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[–] regalia@literature.cafe 33 points 1 year ago (17 children)

rip bozo. That was her fully conscious choice to die

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[–] HomebrewHedonist@lemmy.ca 32 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The important thing is that she stuck to her principles. :/

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[–] UglyEgg@lemmy.ml 24 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Natural selection. Idiots will remove themselves from the gene pool.

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[–] rikudou@lemmings.world 21 points 1 year ago

I can respect her. She was stupid, but hey, at least she was not a hypocrite. If there were more stupid people who weren't hypocrites at the same time, life would be a little bit easier.

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[–] Wiz@midwest.social 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Is this the new location of /r/HermanCainAwards?

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