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[โ€“] Fizz@lemmy.nz 4 points 1 year ago

To make something of myself. I had a decent paying job that I recently quit because I felt it was a waste of my time and skills. I'm passionate and I want to learn to grow.

To have enough money where i can live comfortably on the interest

[โ€“] Tsunami45chan@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

A job and a decent earning.

[โ€“] drifty@sopuli.xyz 3 points 1 year ago

To tell my friend that I love her

[โ€“] gaydarless@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 year ago

To have a good manager and better support at work. It would make my job much more engaging and I'd be more productive too.

[โ€“] Mothra@mander.xyz 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

To get a job I want.

But, right right right now, my desire is that my computer doesn't get herpes after I finish downloading this thing

[โ€“] chrizbie@lemmy.nz 2 points 1 year ago

What are you downloading?

[โ€“] datendefekt@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

I'd like to know what to do next. I'm at a juncture in my career - my current gig is dragging me down, and I think I kinda maneuvered myself into a disadvantageous position.

Since forever, I've been a developer, sometimes leading small teams, sometimes working in committees on data interchange formats for the industry sector. Two years ago, I had the opportunity for a position as enterprise architect in a large corporation. Truth is, I still just have theoretical knowledge of what I'm supposed to be doing and feel like I'm floundering pretty bad. And corporate life is sucking out the joy in my life - so much time spent asking around what to do to adhere to process. But on the other hand, I am doing quite well financially.

Building things gives me joy - even if it's just doing a little optimization to shave off a few milliseconds off a database request. Sitting in meetings and going over spreadsheets is not joyful. It's been so long since I've been in the zone editing code. Generally, it's been about 3 years since I've been coding. I've been considering going back, but I have no idea how to spin it in interviews - and my coding skills are dead.

[โ€“] resin85@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 year ago
[โ€“] mojo@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago

For the girl I was really into to come back so I could talk to her one last time.

[โ€“] Sowatee@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

For my worldbuilding and writing to take off. I want to animate the history of my world, and it's something I want to do full time, but it's a lot of money + time investment. Also live somewhere that I'm not constantly looking over my shoulder. Shit neighbors suck.

[โ€“] chrizbie@lemmy.nz 2 points 1 year ago

What cool and creative desire, that's inspiring I hope you find a way to do it! And share it!

[โ€“] ryn@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

getting taller and taller, i mean im already tall but I want more height

[โ€“] Thorny_Thicket@sopuli.xyz 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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