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I don't love the pejorative "normies".
It’s cringe af and totally reinforces the “gamer” stereotype. We can do better.
IMO it’s up there with calling people npcs
it's way up there with using 'cringe' unironically
Unless referring to oneself. [me]
"We can do better" or worse "X do better" is more cringe.
It's just everyone judging everyone like they are worthless. Maybe people want to be part of the group maybe they have an identity with hardcore gamers. They don't need to do better that's their right.
Referring to any hobby group as "we" is cringe.
What hobby group was I referring to exactly?
Because I don’t think gamers are a hobby group any more than tv watchers are a hobby group.
Or do you think maybe I meant “we” as a collective for the people in this thread?
🤔
I'm guessing "wrong-sider" would be a step in the wrong direction?
it's definitely a weird term but in more than a few contexts (mostly very online contexts) i've found it to be the only suitable terminology because there's just nothing else which most of the people i talk to will "get" otherwise--it'd be nice to have something a little bit less embarrassing to work with, to be honest lol
I feel like 'layman' would be the perfect word here
without the artificial air of superiority
The group here may be different from most of the people you talk to.
Try:
"the average person"
Or (mostly joking) "allistic"?
"average person" i'm afraid lacks a certain it factor--probably the ironic steeping in terminally online culture implied by even speaking it--that's implied by using normie. i find in many of these circumstances it just seems out of place also. in a semantic sense i'm not sure "average person" maps to "normal person" either, which is another thing
Yeah I'm not sure "average person" works the same.... maybe "median person"? 🤣
The 10% nerdiest people hold 90% of the nerdiness?
But yeah I don't think "average person" works, because it's not a wide enough range and doesn't include the opposite extreme end
"non-normies" is a very small group, in this context non-normies would be the most extreme gamers. The "average people" would not include a somewhat invested gamer, and it also wouldn't include someone who is heavily opposed to gaming, both of which would be included in "normies".
I don't think someone heavily opposed to gaming would be considered a normie, they would be in their own separate extremist camp also apart from the average person.
As someone alternative that been active in local gothic scenes I also use "normie" to refeer to people that do not engage with subcultures. I didn't even know it was considered pejorative until this post
I just think of "normie" as the new "vanilla" - every group that uses it, uses it uses it to refer to people who are not a part of that particular group, so its meaning depends on the context but should be self-explanatory and not (necessarily) derogatory.
As a software guy I like the word for its simplicity and ease of use.
Wow.
I cant even right now with this thread. There is nothing wrong with "normie."
I downright hate it.
Me either. I’m a “normie,” I guess, and it feels unwelcoming and condescending.