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I can fall asleep almost anywhere. I routinely fall asleep in the break room at work. Once, I was helping a friend fix his car, and I fell asleep on his garage floor when he went inside to get water.

But in a hot metal tube tearing through the sky, with my neck all kinked? Get out of here, man.

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[–] cerement@slrpnk.net 56 points 2 years ago (3 children)

neck pillow, eye mask, noise-cancelling headphones, and not comfortably

[–] Wayfar3r@lemmy.fmhy.net 15 points 2 years ago

Add some alcohol to that list and you've got my regular routine

[–] Mewtwo@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 years ago

I use ear plugs then put on nose cancelling headphones.

Complete silence. I didn't hear the crying baby that was screaming for the 10 hour flight until the last hour lol.

[–] superb@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 years ago

Same here, except I use ear plugs as well as headphones

[–] SmoothSurfer@lemm.ee 36 points 2 years ago (3 children)

I am gonna be honest with you here. Some of us born with a gift, given directly from god. They can sleep, without thinking embarrassing memories, without using any medicine, without finding comfort itself. But you and I... and many others... we are not welcomed to this dream world of easy sleepers. We are not gifted.

While many times it is a gift it is a curse if we suppose to be with someone. We go on a road trip? You barely close the door I am asleep. We ride buss I am asleep as soon as I sit down. Air plane I wake up 8 hours later. Hang out in bed I am gone.

I have to fight to stay awake but that is in vain. I will lose the fight five minutes later.

[–] ne0phyte@feddit.de 5 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I usually have trouble falling asleep and can't just take a nap in the afternoon - never could.

But on a plane I'll be asleep minutes after the engines started and I'll happily sleep for hours through an entire flight. Something about the engine noise and movement of the cabin is very soothing to me. Same for trains, busses, cars.

And yet I'll regularly lie in my bed awake desperately trying to fall asleep..

[–] yimby@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 years ago

Sounds like you might benefit from some white noise sleeping at home. Can play it through your phone or even an old radio set to some quiet static.

[–] 0101010001110100@sopuli.xyz 3 points 2 years ago

My partner is one of these. I have photos of him sleeping on planes, trains, boats and cars. He can be worried about something, or stressed about tomorrow, and still fall asleep within 5 minutes of laying down. I am so jealous.

[–] RagingNerdoholic@lemmy.ca 16 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

Pure exhaustion from all the "hurry up and wait" of airport bullshit.

By the time I've gotten out of bed, gotten ready, travelled to the airport, dragged all my shit through the airport, unpacked and repacked half of it through security, boarded the plane ... my body just kinda gives up on being awake.

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[–] florge@feddit.uk 8 points 2 years ago

Headphones in, zone out, drift off, wake up with a crooked neck.

[–] Che_Donkey@lemmy.ml 8 points 2 years ago

No idea but as SOON as we start to taxi I am out like a light...

I also fall asleep at the dentist so maybe it's just me?

[–] teuto@lemmy.teuto.icu 8 points 2 years ago

I used to not be able to sleep on airliners, but then I got a job that required I fly on one once a week. By far the best way to make time pass fast.

[–] DirigibleProtein@aussie.zone 8 points 2 years ago (1 children)

First you find a comfortable position. Sometimes a pillow helps. Then close your eyes.

[–] SilentStorms@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 years ago (1 children)
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[–] cyborganism@lemmy.ca 8 points 2 years ago

Sensory reduction (earplugs, facemask) and some benadryl.

[–] Peruvia@lemmy.ml 7 points 2 years ago

The clouds are pretty. But speaking from experience, connecting flights/long flights will just let you drop in and out due to exhaustion. You will randomly wake up because of the weird positioning of your neck like 5 times. Heaphones help a lot to sleep. But I conclude, quality sleep can be found on airport floors(not joking).

[–] smellythief 7 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Can you fall asleep in a car? You know those metal cages tearing down roads where more people get killed than in those metal tunbes tearing through the sky...

[–] cRazi_man@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago

A car is far more comfortable and less noisy than a plane.

[–] Zoidsberg@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 years ago (2 children)

If you're comparing the comfort of a car to the comfort of a plane, you must be riding in the rich people seats.

This is a comfort issue. I don't care about getting killed.

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[–] chumbaz@lemmy.ml 6 points 2 years ago

White noise. The white noise knocks me out almost immediately.

[–] chippy@murffys-place.club 6 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Noise cancelling headphones and the antihistamine tablets that say β€œwill cause drowsiness do not operate machinery or drive” washed down with a pint of beer. Sleep for 6 hours no problems.

Only time I could ever sleep on a plane was after a business trip were I worked 18 hours days for almost 2 weeks. I was so tired I fell asleep right after boarding and buckling in. Not even takeoff and landing woke me up. Flight attendant shook me awake. LOL

[–] OceanSoap@lemmy.ml 6 points 2 years ago (1 children)

At some point, the seats stopped leaning far back enough so that gravity kept my head in decline. That way I could sleep. Now that they don't lean back far enough, my head keeps dropping forward, so I constantly am kept in a state or awake.

[–] CrypticFawn@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Hey a neck pillow so you can tilt it to the side.

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[–] ezmack@lemmy.ml 5 points 2 years ago

Idk its pretty easy I'm usually tired and bored as shit

[–] altima_neo@lemmy.zip 5 points 2 years ago

I couldnt sleep for shit when I took an overnight flight a long time ago. The air pressure messing with my ears made it too uncomfortable to do so.

[–] calhoon2005@aussie.zone 5 points 2 years ago

I'm 6'4" (193cm). I don't.

[–] dQw4w9WgXcQ@lemm.ee 5 points 2 years ago
[–] radix@lemm.ee 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

If it's hot in the plane, that might be blocking you from sleeping. Personally I'm always cold in planes and fall asleep relatively easily both on planes and elsewhere.

It also helps to be jet-lagged. Knocks you out right quick :P Only applies to return trips though.

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[–] lntl@lemmy.sdf.org 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] Admetus@sopuli.xyz 3 points 2 years ago

Alcohol makes me need to pee often so that can backfire. Makes you dehydrated too. πŸ˜…

[–] philpo@feddit.de 4 points 2 years ago

There is a good trick: Business class. As I only fly business class long haul as I only fly for the job.

And luckily I can force my clients to pay for it.

Otherwise, as a rather long and large person, I am fucked.

[–] SHamblingSHapes@lemmy.one 4 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Hot? I'm usually cold on airplanes. That would definitely make a difference for me.

Neck pillow for the neck kinks. I don't like the horseshoe shaped ones though, I like the trtl brand style. Expensive, but it became worth it when I took a job requiring a couple flights per month minimum.

[–] gabelstapler@feddit.de 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

While I'm usually also freezing on the plane I noticed that Japanese Airlines cranks up the Heat during the night.

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[–] ag_roberston_author 2 points 2 years ago

I had this conversation with some friends this week and we all swore that planes used to be freezing cold, but now they're all hot. It's crazy.

[–] _thisdot@infosec.pub 4 points 2 years ago

I haven’t been on a very long flight. Longest was 2 hours. Every time I keep my Kindle ready. Have multiple podcasts etc. But right after take-off, I go off like a bulb and wake up only after landing

Something to do with a combination of pressure difference, engine noise and all. Also it’s pretty cold usually

[–] fratermus@lemmy.sdf.org 4 points 2 years ago

How do people sleep on planes?

Neck pillow, earplugs, eyemask

[–] arefx@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

So I actually have a lot of trouble sleeping, and have restless legs and periodic limb movement disorder. I also have pretty bad diagnosed ADHD and brown noise absolutely helps calm me down.... So that engine noise? Puts me right to sleep I don't know what it is about it.

Also I usually smoke a bunch of weed before going to the airport so that helps.

[–] thomcat@midwest.social 3 points 2 years ago

Forgive the Amazon link

SkySiesta SNUG Travel Pillow - Head Support with L Shaped, Fiber Filled Sides. Patented Design. https://a.co/d/6cdbI2i

[–] doc@kbin.social 3 points 2 years ago

Ear plugs, hat over my face, and fatigue. Sure I'm sore afterwards, but if i can sleep through at least half the flight I'm happy.

[–] ChrisLicht@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago

Tell you GP that you have anxiety when you fly. They’ll prescribe a benzo.

Enjoy your snooze.

[–] jarfil@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 years ago

With my face pasted against the window. After a while, all those tiny clouds look like a field of sheep πŸ’€

[–] vettnerk@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago

Before: Turtl Travel Pillow. It's not easy, but it helps.

Now: Business class. I fly enough to rack up enough air miles that a seat upgrade is affordable if not free.

[–] Dangdoggo@kbin.social 2 points 2 years ago

I fall asleep long before we ever take off usually by putting a podcast on the earbuds, wrapping a sweater stiff around my neck and focusing on the vibrations from the engine. Usually wake up around landing announcements. Never realized this was a blessing.

[–] kaiju@lemmy.my.id 2 points 2 years ago

I just don't sleep (or sleep late) before the fight.

[–] livus@kbin.social 2 points 2 years ago

Zopiclone, mostly.

[–] SapphicFemme@lib.lgbt 2 points 2 years ago

If I have a partner to travel with me, I can sleep by holding their hand and leaning on them or by laying on their lap.

I have also slept on semi-strangers lap once.... I'll give some context... We all were apart of an event ... Staff all knew who everyone was, so there was some implicit trust amongst us peers. As a result, I figured I'd ask this one person I was sitting with to hold their hand. The person later asked if I was tired & invited me to lay on their lap, so I could sleep. In any other travel, asking strangers to do such thing could have larger risks obviously.

[–] jetsetdorito@lemm.ee 2 points 2 years ago

I've never been on a long flight, but on overnight Amtrak routes I can only sleep with earbuds and music

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