schreiblehrling

joined 1 year ago
[–] schreiblehrling 1 points 1 year ago

…der Erker mit was drin 🎵

[–] schreiblehrling 2 points 1 year ago

Yeah, it’s good to remember that. First reactions is one thing, but what counts is the long run.

[–] schreiblehrling 1 points 1 year ago

Same in my case. It seems to not work with Apple Watch. Which is weird.

[–] schreiblehrling 2 points 1 year ago

Okay that was unexpected 😅

[–] schreiblehrling 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

One cannot chose the family they’re born into. Some folks will be understanding and maybe even helpful, others won’t. Coming out is a very big thing which should be shared with the family, if possible of course. Living two lives is just so draining.

I did live two lives for a while and it got so annoying to not be able to tell friends and family where I went and who I met. My close family members were kinda supporting. In the long run, the ones I thought would act negative were more helpful than the others. So… you never know the outcome. Just remember that you had a lot of time to think about it while they get the news in that moment. They might need time to digest it as well – days, months, maybe years.

[–] schreiblehrling 1 points 1 year ago

Ich fand die total eklig und war sehr verwirrt, weil ich sie geil finden wollte.

[–] schreiblehrling 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

It’s not as binary like a light switch, this or that, A or B. It’s all fluid. For example, I thought I was gay at first, for some years, but didn’t dare to act or think more in that direction. Then I started to come out to myself, explore a bit and realized I might be bi. I munched on that thought and feelings a bit and later found out that I was gay. More or less, at least.

EDIT: Omg sorry for posting 3 times the same comment, my app crashed.

[–] schreiblehrling 1 points 1 year ago

Yeah, somehow, for everyone who has a job 😒

[–] schreiblehrling 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Never skip boulder day

[–] schreiblehrling 1 points 1 year ago

See? It just needs one asshole to end the world.

[–] schreiblehrling 4 points 1 year ago

Hell of a job, but yes 😆

[–] schreiblehrling 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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