you think a movement of tolerance for trans folks is brainwashing? i'm pretty sure it's society evolving to accept that people exist outside the box of binary genders and other folks deciding they have no problem with that.
you're trying to tell people that what they know themselves to be is wrong. you're out here lacking empathy - making no attempt to really try to understand what life is like for people like this. and ultimately you're making a fuss about something that bears no tangible outcome on your daily life.
we don't want to have this conversation anymore. it has been done to death. we understand your perspective and it's based on fear of the unknown. end of discussion.
hmm - i like the idea of removing gender from divisions and instead using another criteria that better defines an individual's ability. that way when a trans woman goes to compete they aren't specifically put into a category for men but rather a group of people who have relatively comparable abilities. sortof like weight classes. i mean - it's still kinda shitty because now someone has to decide based on difficult criteria who belongs where, but i think that's a step in the right direction. i'm would hope that for trans folks, the idea that they are put into a gendered category is what is the most discriminatory rather than a skill/ability category. however, the end result would likely be the same just with different labels. maybe that's what matters most? i don't know. no easy answers.