They aren't, but chasing down websites in other languages is a pain in the ass. The Japanese see basically all non-Japanese people as copyright infringers. I've downloaded JAV that's bookended and watermarked with Chinese ads because the Chinese have the gall to do that, not the Japanese who probably see it as an annoyance and primarily target the domestic Japanese market anyways.
lazyneet
joined 9 months ago
I told my first gf I was bi and she brought over her other boyfriend to tie me up and fuck my ass <3
Met a fellow 30something crossdresser and free software guy on Hinge. It seemed like a great fit. We met for coffee and talked for a few hours, then he told me he wasn't gay and didn't want to meet me again. For fuck's sake. My ass won't destroy itself. 🥵😭
Now that I've scrolled through 1000+ profiles and determined that they aren't gay enough for me (I don't really go for masc/closeted/straight-looking people and I try to limit the age range to 25-40s) I really need to figure out what the fuck part of this community I'm overlooking or not understanding. I'm willing to drop out of college and move for the right relationship. Ever since I became a gay femboy, things have gotten harder.
Grow your hair out and (if you're looking for things to buy) bleach/dye it.
Are long-term master/slave dynamics common in the gay community?
I'm a pan non-binary AMAB and I like femboys and anything BDSM.
I share pictures sometimes, but not because I enjoy swapping pictures or anything. It's more of a way to get feedback/affirmation. I don't think I would enjoy another long-distance relationship with just swapping pics. Some people do, and I don't judge. Text-based roleplay is interesting, but I think sites like Umbra have absorbed that community.
You should definitely grow your hair out too, if you aren't dealing with male pattern baldness. And paint your nails. Real sissies are in sissy mode all the time.
Women's shirts tend to fit the torso better than the loose cut of most men's shirts. There are different types (blouses, knits, crop tops) but they're all mixed together in the same section at the thrift store. It also helps to wear colorful socks. Don't forget hair clips, which serve the practical purpose of keeping hair out of your face. I have a set of 20 little colorful clips that look like flowers when I arrange them in my hair, and it only takes 5 minutes.
I know. I'm privacy conscious and have software dev and IT training. I'm a lot better than most zoomers in that regard. I'm just hoping that my niche actually exists in the real world and isn't purely a rhetorical construct invented to get underage queers to join discord servers and talk about identity issues. I would hope glowies have better things to do than infiltrate the gay community. I would also hope that the liminal space of looking like a girl but not identifying as one is a common shared experience. My litmus test is age, so the more 40something and 50something femboys and sissies I see, the more secure I am in the label's legitimacy. Do girly boys hold a special place in your heart?
My sexy fun for the year seemed to start and end in July. It seems I can't get much, but that doesn't stop me from trying. I brought a gay friend to a BDSM group a couple days ago, and he politely observed and listened to people talk. Very quiet and non-confrontational sort of guy. I don't think he's interested in me.
I've also taken an interest in niche dating sites - made an account on Duolicious and managed to make contact with a metrosexual 24-year-old, but he's so incredibly shy and reserved that I don't think it's going anywhere. I also found a site called Sissy Island, but they're having server errors. If I could date only in femboy and sissy circles, especially if the crowd skews more to Gen Y, I couldn't ask for more. My sexuality is abnormal, and I guess I'm going against the grain by avoiding people I'm not attracted to, since the standard for my generation seems to be having no standards.
UwU thank you. I'm cumming around to appreciating daddies, but my attraction is quicker with femboys and trans people. Maybe we'll meet one day