How could I compare if I've never been a man to find out.
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why would a woman know the relative strength more than a man? They both only truly know one side of the equation. I think this varies quite a bit across individuals as well.
This really entirely depends on the woman. I'm a lesbian and I love to orgasm and don't feel satisfied until I do. My girlfriend is the opposite and is more there for the journey. She is indifferent to achieving an orgasm and can be satisfied without one.
Most likely stronger.
The male orgasm is easier to achieve and pretty much guaranteed.
From what my female friends have said it can be rarer for them.
It's a fucking chore...
Although it also depends a lot on the person. But for me, I usually get distracted and/or bored before I finish. ADHD is a bitch lol.
Depends on the man. Depends on the women. Orgasm is not guaranteed for some men.
The female orgasm is pretty easy for me to achieve alone. I can generally come within 5 minutes if I really want to.
Coming during sex is totally different, but thatβs because of the other factors involved, not because female orgasms are inherently rare or difficult for everyone.
Can we leave the thinly veiled spankbank questions to reddit please?
Meaning?
Stormyfemme is talking about a certain phenomenon on r/AskReddit, where a lot of the questions asked survey (usually) women about their sex lives in a way that makes it obvious that OP gets their rocks off to the answers. So basically the implication is that you're doing the same thing.
(I'm not saying I necessarily agree with Stormyfemme's assessment of your motivations. I'm just giving context.)
Cool, thanks for the reply!
The info goes for a fictional story π
Ah okie, no problem
Not a lady but I've been married to one for a couple decades and I think we have good communication.
I'd wager that there is little difference in the urge to get off. I'd wager that the biggest difference lies in where 'getting off' falls within the whole sequence of events.
For most men, getting off is the last period at the end of the last sentence of the last chapter. That may create urgency in their partner that might not otherwise be there.
Follow up question for ladies: how do you more usually / prefer to get off: 1) by just "standard" penetration or 2) finger/tongue/others stimulation?
asking for a friend
Approximately 70% of women cannot get off from penetration alone.