this post was submitted on 19 Jun 2023
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No Stupid Questions

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There is no such thing as a Stupid Question!

Don't be embarrassed of your curiosity; everyone has questions that they may feel uncomfortable asking certain people, so this place gives you a nice area not to be judged about asking it. Everyone here is willing to help.


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Why are people quick to ban or block because a comment makes them angry, rather than engage, debate or respectfully strongly disagree and leave the discussion at that?

Why can't people handle talking with someone who has a completely different view who can explain why they are against something that was said?

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[โ€“] marshadow 11 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)
  1. If I make a spelling, grammar, or word choice error, or am unable to find a noun and have to describe the thing, then my entire point is invalidated. If I fail to accurately translate my shapeless, interwoven web of thought-color-shape-idea into paragraphs the other party can understand, they now have reason to regard everyone who holds my position as too stupid to be allowed to speak.
  2. Insisting on a debate can be sometimes (but not always) a tactic used by people who want to wear out the other side.
  3. The same reason I block, mute, and ignore advertisements: I get to decide how to spend my attention.
[โ€“] Lengsel@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That's a short sided simplified view of what I said. I was talking about either comments on a public platform or in a long form format.

[โ€“] marshadow 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

What? How is it short and simplified? Can you explain what you mean? I answered your question, using more words than your original post did.