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[–] Napain@lemmy.ml 27 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[–] Hovenko@iusearchlinux.fyi 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Let's call it sexist statement which generalizes behavior and reinforces stereotypes. Mostly shows authors immature way of thinking and insecurity.

[–] RaivoKulli@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 year ago
[–] EveryMuffinIsNowEncrypted@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

God please not this inane "girls vs boys" meme. What are we? 13??? I thought we left this shit on Reddit...

[–] Hovenko@iusearchlinux.fyi 5 points 1 year ago

This is worse than reddit. This is full incel 9gag power.

[–] Hovenko@iusearchlinux.fyi 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That meme format is so retarded.

[–] enitoni 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Could you not use a slur please

[–] Hovenko@iusearchlinux.fyi 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

There is no slur in my sentence. Please point me to it if you see one.

[–] explodicle@local106.com 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Because it is now considered offensive, the word is commonly referred to by the euphemisms "r-word" and "r-slur".

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Retard_(pejorative)

[–] Hovenko@iusearchlinux.fyi 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Learn the difference between adjective and subject/object. Learn about 'homonyms' - just a note for a special person like you "homo" is not a slur. Learn about confirmation bias. The example you have shown right now is superb.

But you know what? I am giving it to you. You have won the internet today. You are the best of the best. ;)

[–] explodicle@local106.com 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

None of that is relevant at all; you're just saying a bunch of patronizing faux rationalist stuff.

[–] Hovenko@iusearchlinux.fyi 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

None of what you say is relevant as well. You just got offended.

[–] explodicle@local106.com 2 points 1 year ago

Yes it is. For example if you read the article I've linked, you'll notice it does include the adjective.

But even if anyone is offended, that doesn't make them wrong. Being unharmed by slurs implies privilege, not rationality.

[–] enitoni 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

"Homo" and "Retard" are both slurs when used in a derogative way. As an autistic person who also happens to be gay, both words are hurtful when used in the way you use them. Please do better, especially if you're not part of either minority group. Then it's just embarassing for you to use words that you really shouldn't be using.

[–] Hovenko@iusearchlinux.fyi 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

So we are going to erase every word that can be used as slur as well? I guess we will stop talking about animals like "ape", "pig", "monkey" and there should be a law that prohibits grouping of any round object that can be described as "ball" so people don't think it can be used as a slur. Yeah from now don't use those words in public because I will get offended personally ...

Btw dude... homo means human. Pull your head out of your self centered behind. There is a person in the same thread calling people 'douche' yet you are offended by completely normal words like 'homo' or 'retarded'. ;)

[–] enitoni 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

You can't make any word a slur. Slurs are specifically words used to show prejudice or to oppress a group of marginalized people. You're not going to use the n-word, are you? So don't use words that historically and still is used against intellectually disabled and developmentally disabled people.

Your "deal with it" rhetoric also doesn't come across as anything else but a lack of good argument. You know you could just be a nice human and have empathy for people who are hurt by the words you're using instead of being a stubborn asshole.

In my country the phrase "jævla homo" is a slur against gay people. So just because a word has multiple meanings doesn't mean it isn't a slur when used in the right context.

And please spare me from your passive-aggressive winking faces. It doesn't come across as anything else but childish.

[–] rotopenguin@infosec.pub 9 points 1 year ago

How else am I supposed to fuck a gator? EXPLAIN AT ME THAT, MR GENIUS

[–] LemmyAtem 8 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I realize this is a meme, but isn't it mostly linked to how many men died in wars last century, which disproportionately skews the numbers?

It's a lot of things in reality. Past numbers are skewed by war, but also men are bigger risk takers, less likely to seek medical care, less likely to seek mental healthcare, more likely to isolate, more likely to drink and use drugs (and when they do, a higher average amount), more likely to commit suicide, and the list goes on.

[–] Perditija@feddit.de 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I want to throw in the following explanations I read (I haven't fact checked them but find them interesting for this post). Women are statistically smaller than men and smaller individuals of a species live longer than larger ones. Men on average have faster metabolisms than women which is said to contribute to faster aging as well.

[–] rotopenguin@infosec.pub 1 points 1 year ago

The obvious explanation for the life expectancy differential is that girls are more likely to catch a toilet-seat borne disease.

[–] TrustingZebra@lemmy.one 1 points 1 year ago

Women recieve better health care.

[–] atocci@kbin.social 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Would this work? Would the alligator realize something is wrong through some sort of alligator uncanny valley? Do we know?

[–] dingleberry@discuss.tchncs.de 6 points 1 year ago

I know birds tend to be dumb as a brick. Many would mistake a rock for an egg, and crocodile/alligator are their brothers from another mother. So...