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The few conversations I've had there have been unproductive and inflammatory. While even in other instances when I've said something someone disagreed with they would at least support their statement. Also no one would tell me why the "Confused Unga Bunga" meme is racist but they keep accusing me of it. I'm all for open discussions but even the comments there are so angry and toxic.

Edit: I'm reading every comment and taking everything people said and considering all sides. My stance on the phrase has changed but I am still hesitant about giving hexbear a chance. I'll sleep on it though.

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[โ€“] Ranvier@sopuli.xyz 25 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Not really. Since we don't have the ability to instance block ourselves yet I changed instances to one not federating with them to avoid them and similar authoritarian instances like lemmygrad and exploding heads. I swing pretty far left on the political spectrum myself, but there's a difference between that and simping for dictators, genocide denial, and other problematic things. I don't even get it, China and Russia can hardly be described as leftist by any definition but they'll bend over backwards to defend anything they do, and try to change the subject to another country instead if they can't.

[โ€“] Veraticus@lib.lgbt 24 points 1 year ago

No, they're bad people. Their whole point with federation was to troll other instances.

[โ€“] ikiru@lemmy.ml 20 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I don't understand all the hate. They're just fucking funny. I have a great time there.

Maybe if you're not a Leftist then there's no appeal.

[โ€“] Franzia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 19 points 1 year ago

They do a lot of harassment and say some hateful shit. It's not all jokes.

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[โ€“] Gormadt@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 1 year ago

In my experience? No.

There's nothing productive from over there

Literally during the time they were federated with Blahaj I ended up blocking almost 4 dozen of them for their absolute toxic behavior including being dismissive of genocide, simping for dictators, and who could forget their stance on Ukraine. Their stance basically boils down to letting Russia steam roll them.

There's nothing productive from being federated with them.

[โ€“] xapr@lemmy.sdf.org 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Interesting, I haven't personally had any run ins with Hexbears, but everything I've read from them in non-Hexbear communities has generally looked fine to me. Sure, they argue hard and in detail when it comes to anything political and they can also be a little edgy, but I haven't seen any of them be assholes, abusive, argue in bad faith, etc. So far I have appreciated their contributions. It probably helps that I generally agree with (many of?) them politically as far as I can tell, but despite that, if I saw them being assholes I would make notice because I don't believe in defending the people in your team even when they're doing wrong. I would be more likely to call them for taking the wrong approach instead. Do you have any example threads that demonstrate what you're describing?

[โ€“] yukichigai@kbin.social 21 points 1 year ago

What I've personally seen is that the moment they're mentioned they descend en masse on a thread. Most comments are fairly innocuous but there's always a few that are overly aggressive, and if nothing else the sheer volume can be overwhelming.

[โ€“] AdmiralShat@programming.dev 12 points 1 year ago

Extremely toxic shithole.

[โ€“] hsl@wayfarershaven.eu 11 points 1 year ago

The question itself is inflammatory but there has generally been a good discussion. Locking instead of removing.

[โ€“] mashbooq@infosec.pub 8 points 1 year ago

Oh yay another one of these threads. They sure are different from each other and provide substantive conversation.

[โ€“] spaduf@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 year ago

Nope. There be trolls over there.

[โ€“] Nemo@midwest.social 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I subbed !urbanism@hexbear.net and honestly, it's too much image and not enough text for my druthers, but the kids are all right.

[โ€“] zkikiz@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 year ago

Apparently it's not super great? I haven't noticed https://lemmy.ca/post/3532299