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Happens way too often to me.

edit: I had no idea this was such a common issue!

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[–] hyperyog@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

This has happened way too many times, especially in many books. This makes doing a lot of my assignments a lot more difficult and often has dissuaded me from reading. I am trying to get better at reading, so I got myself some more books (that I'll read sometime in the future maybe) and combining it with some music or white noise to prevent me from zoning out.

[–] TommySalami@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

It happens to everyone to varying degrees. It's a phenomenon similar to highway hypnosis (where you forget completing large sections of familiar drives), in that you are consciously participating in the activity but not commiting enough processing power for your brain to deem it important enough to encode.

Reading becomes so practiced it's simple, comprehension is another matter entirely.

[–] sedawk@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago

Books, tv, movies, YouTube even. Especially if I'm multitasking with programming.

[–] Provenscroll@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago

This sometimes happens to me when I'm watching TV, especially if I'm doing something else while listening.

[–] RanchOnPancakes@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

No but I listen to a lot of audio books and I read/listen to a lot of fantasy and sometimes fantasy worlds get a bit complicated. So I've learned to not start a new one until I can really pay attention for a while. Otherwise the new magic / concepts may bounce off me.

[–] Damaniel@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Sadly, all the time.

[–] MCForTheBest@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

I do this with everything from reading to watching youtube videos etc. I have to pay special attention to really understand what I'm even reading/watching sometimes. My goldfish memory doesn't help at all

[–] Aoladari@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Every time I have to try and read procedures for anything.

[–] rgamuffin@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

This happens to me all the time.

[–] greyhathero@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Constantly for me. I reread or give up

[–] BreakNeckJim@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Yep, used to do that all the time. Now whenever I'm reading introduction stuff I actively make myself think about everything that is being explained.

Really pays off later in the book I find.

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[–] SeaGoatGirl@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I don't know if it is normal, but it happens to me sometimes, too. My attention span is not always great!

[–] Silvia@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I remember reading a new book that interested me, finished it, and realized I remembered NOTHING and didn't understand the ending at all. So I read the book again. It was pretty good. ... can't remember the book lol

[–] BakedBeans@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Yep. That's when I realize it's time to put down the book and do something else. Because clearly my mind is not on the book.

[–] ShakshukaBlyat23@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

This sounds a lot like me. I have ADHD.

[–] SpezCanLigmaBalls@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I do this to literally every book every time I read

[–] Fastfish05@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It does happen to me, I normally find it means I'm not enjoying the book.

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[–] kevinbacon@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Can you stop calling my adhd ass out?

[–] Licensed_to_ill@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It happens to me too and I don't think I have ADHD. Should I be diagnosed?

[–] Yuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

It’s when it happens in excess that it’s ADHD. ND disabilities (from my understanding I’m not a doctor) are typically normal things that everyone experiences that are happening in excess. Everyone fidgets with things, everyone’s mind wanders, it’s totally normal to be distracted, but when it’s frequent and severe enough to interrupt your daily obligations does it become a disability.

[–] Nommer@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I struggle with learning how to program because I keep losing focus on what the code I'm writing does. I'm not diagnosed but it sure sounds like ADHD to me.

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