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[–] HeyLow@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 5 hours ago

Femboys are the best

[–] kipo@lemm.ee 4 points 1 day ago

Femboys are you okay having the tables flipped?

[–] wanderwisley@lemm.ee 4 points 1 day ago

Femboys are you going to be home in time for the meeting?

[–] sleeperdouge@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 day ago

Femboys are not that much of a boy

[–] DoucheBagMcSwag@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Femboys are the best

😂

[–] uniquethrowagay@feddit.org 2 points 1 day ago

Femboys are you going to be able to get a new one for me to come over to my place?

[–] wyrmroot@programming.dev 25 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Femboys are we going out for lunch tomorrow morning at six?

[–] I_am_10_squirrels 4 points 2 days ago

Ah, yes, 6 AM lunch

[–] kittenzrulz123@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Femboys are a positive side effect on unixporn

[–] Aggravationstation@feddit.uk 3 points 1 day ago

Damn straight! Or not, no judgement.

[–] not_IO@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 2 days ago

bahahahahah

[–] Numuruzero@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 2 days ago

Femboys are you doing tonight and then we might go to a tire place

[–] itslilith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 day ago

Femboys are you proposing?

[–] Caitlyynn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 day ago

Femboys are the most important part of the modern human mind

[–] adm@lemm.ee 3 points 1 day ago

Femboys are perfect

[–] zea_64@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 day ago

Femboys are you okay with that I don't know what to do

[–] Maxxie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 day ago

Femboys are not just about being able to use their tools for the things you want.

[–] KSPAtlas@sopuli.xyz 19 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] KSPAtlas@sopuli.xyz 13 points 2 days ago (1 children)

If I try to do a longer one, I get

Femboys are a good idea

[–] not_IO@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 2 days ago

both true ^-^

[–] VinesNFluff@pawb.social 16 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Femboys are the same as the US

.... Currently in crisis?

[–] optissima@lemmy.ml 16 points 2 days ago

... looking really vulnerable rn

[–] hperrin@lemmy.ca 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] nebula42@lemmy.zip 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Femboys are known for not having a lot of the old Testament.

[–] ookiiBoy@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 days ago

Spitting facts rn.

[–] archchan@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 day ago

Femboys are a great way for people

[–] DaPorkchop_@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 day ago

femboys are you gonna be at the moment it doesn't actually have much if anything planned outside the door to be a better

[–] sakakicchi@lemmy.sdf.org 18 points 2 days ago

femboys are overrated

femboys aren't gay

femboys are the future

this sounds like someone's journey of self-acceptance

[–] rarWars@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 2 days ago

Femboys are the only one I have in mind

So true lmao

[–] quantenzitrone@lemmings.world 11 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Femboys are the most important part in this conversation IMO. Femboys are a very good example of how the world is a lot better than the world. Femboys are not as great in their day and age and they can only do it because it was the first thing in your life.

[–] quantenzitrone@lemmings.world 8 points 2 days ago

FUTO keyboard btw

[–] Gork@lemm.ee 8 points 2 days ago

Femboys are good and easy to use for the day and then the Pentagon.

[–] crazyminner@lemmy.ml 8 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Femboys are a very good example of how the world is a lot better than the world we live in today and we are not even close to the world we live today and we are not even close to the world we live today and we are not...

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[–] Linkyu@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Femboys are a very good example of how the world is a lot better than the world we live in today, and the world is a lot better than it was before the internet existed, and the internet was a lot better than it was before the internet was invented.

From a FUTO Keyboard that's still in early training, FWIW.

[–] Caitlyynn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Omg I had the same at first (using Futo too)

[–] Star@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 2 days ago

Femboys are the best 👌

[–] lord_ryvan@ttrpg.network 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Femboys are not the only ones who have been in the hospital

Hmm keyboard wtf are you implying?

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[–] cassowary@lemm.ee 4 points 2 days ago

Femboys are we doing a meeting tomorrow

[–] socsa@piefed.social 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Femboys are you going to be able to get the kids to the house over there

Oh no...

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[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 3 points 2 days ago

Femboys are the ones you have a good job on your phone and I don't have a lot to say.

[–] RisingSwell@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 days ago

Femboys are you still have the same as the weights and measures to ensure that the world burn is the only one that is the only one that is the only one that is the only one

Ok I think it's just looping now.

[–] optissima@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] ookiiBoy@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 days ago

"Femboys are good for you guys."

I mean. Trans rights are human rights. So yes.

[–] tuna@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 2 days ago
  • femboys are so funny to watch when you have a crush
  • femboys are the best in the business lol
  • femboys are the most fun people to be around
[–] KingThrillgore@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 days ago

Femboys are the best

Femboys are a good thing

My phone approves, good phone 👍

[–] NakariLexfortaine@lemm.ee 7 points 2 days ago

Femboys are the best things to go through.

[–] Ghost33313 7 points 2 days ago

Femboys are so damn backward, and that was the logic it raises the question of why we continue to ignore lgbtq and that was the logic it raises the question of why we continue to ignore lgbtq. (It repeats)

The views of my phone do not reflect my own views.

[–] SuluBeddu@feddit.it 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Femboys are you ok to come to the shop for a coffee and a coffee and a drink with a friend who is more than welcome to come to the house and I can do it for you and you can do it for me and I can do it for you and you can do it for me and

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