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I’m really curious where else everyone here hangs out on the internet besides Lemmy.

I myself am frequently on discord with my wife and friends playing games. I’ve also found myself in and around smaller blogs spaces like Kev Quirk and related people. Reddit used to be a place for me to hang out but I never found a community that I felt connected to. I don’t know if YouTube would be considered a place to hang out, but I frequently spend way more time there than I should. IRC used to be a great place for me.

So, where are your favorite places?

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[–] Veraxus@kbin.social 21 points 10 months ago (4 children)

Ever since Reddit killed itself, the only places I really lurk are Kbin (and therefore Lemmy by proxy) and Discord. That's pretty much it.

[–] be_excellent_to_each_other@kbin.social 8 points 10 months ago (3 children)

I have ignored Discord for years until recently. It just seems like IRC with a lot of flashiness and emojis. Is there more to this experience? I don't intend to be disparaging, but I looked for some specific topic servers and just found the quality of discussion to be low and the experience to be chaotic.

I'm willing to be told I'm doing it wrong though - is there a "here's the right way to get into discord" approach I'm missing?

[–] amitten@normalcity.life 1 points 10 months ago

I personally think the best way to use discord is to create a server and invite people to it as you meet them online. For me, it’s gaming that connects me with people. My wife and I meet people that we like and want to play with more, and so we invite them. This usually results in getting invited to other small community servers.

[–] Veraxus@kbin.social 1 points 10 months ago

There are a lot of game development communities there. It’s basically a cheap, more public alternative to Slack.

[–] Admetus@sopuli.xyz 1 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Yeah seems so, it's pretty ok though. It tracks what is new and your mentions so it's vaguely like a messaging app instead of IRC.

[–] Ashtear@lemm.ee 3 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Mostly the same for me. I've been poking around Bluesky too but I'm having trouble finding content/follows I like.

[–] amitten@normalcity.life 1 points 10 months ago

It’s interesting that you say that because I have trouble finding content that I like on all microblogging platforms : Mastodon, X, threads and all. If you crack the code, let me know.

Feeds are the secret at Bluesky. Once you have a few of those you like, look at deck.blue.

[–] SuiXi3D@kbin.social 1 points 10 months ago