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I'm kinda neutral. Being bi is great but I hate having to hide it

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[–] LUX@lemmy.ml 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I dislike being grouped in the more rabid aspects of the queer community, the kind that religiously defends Drag, encourages sexual deviancy and praises censorship.

What's wrong with drag and sexual deviance? They don't hurt anyone.

And I especially dislike the forcefulness of pride.

Having a month to celebrate pride is forceful? Who is forcing you to do anything related to pride?

[–] thumbtack 5 points 1 year ago

as a sex repulsed asexual, i’m not personally a huge fan of how sexual/horny the LGBT community can tend to be in online spaces at least. back on reddit, a lot of LGBT meme subs or even just r/bisexual for example (i’m biromantic) are really sexual especially. pride events don’t feel particularly comfortable for me either because of this.

i totally understand why the community tends to be this way when it’s based on sexuality and gender alone as a uniting force, and that’s okay, but it regardless isn’t something i’d like to personally be associated with much. i support people doing whatever they like within their own home so long as it is of age humans consenting, but in outside environments just tends to make me uncomfortable.